How much acces is reasonable for father to have to daughter after seperation and how do control it we keep having to change dates and he is being very unreasonable.
2007-02-24 00:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by K O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as far as i know when you are unmarried, the father doesn't actually have any entitlements regarding access. however most can see that its important for kids to see their father and maintain contact. try to find out as much about your legal standing on this situation, once informed, go to the father setting the rules letting him know the terms. if he cant be bothered to take this seriously then maybe he's not what is best for the children after all..
good luck with this and i hope it all works out for the best for you...
2007-02-24 00:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Seona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either do it amicably or through the courts either way both of you have equal entitlement , married or not , i know , i am unmarried father of 6 kids and i have always fought for , and got custody , or access rights , the bickering bit you'l just have to try and sort out between yourselves , but if the access is set by the court then you both have legal recourse .
2007-02-24 02:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unmarried has nothing to do with access. He has as much right to his daughter as you do, so be careful you don't practice anything that might irritate a judge, like denying visitation. Your daughter needs her daddy, so be patient, and it will get better, also, its ok to be flexible.
2007-02-24 02:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go to court and get set visitations by the judge, then he has to follow what they are. If he doesn't follow them then he is in violation of the court order. Its best for all to get the court order so the child isn't bounced around when ever he feels like changing the plan.
2007-02-24 01:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a mediator . someone who can help you with this problem with the best interest of the child at heart. neither of you shoud think about what you want just what is best for the child. save any more rows and get a official body to help you decide what is best. if you are not sure what to do then contact your social services for advice.
2007-02-27 09:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you're not to any extent further married yet lived jointly see you later and characteristic a baby jointly, i'm positive you've some rights. on the the least , he ought to nevertheless ought to pay baby help. As for the abuse, if he abused the youngster, take it to courtroom to guard your baby from him. pass see a criminal specialist, tell them the entire tale even the small stuff and they could allow you to comprehend what rights, if any you've on your state .
2016-12-04 21:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋