Hello All! - My husband and I been married for allmost 9yrs. Our relationship it's OK I think, but I feel we have to communicate more. He is driving Truck so we don't have much time to talk. What bothering me is: like this morning he called he said he is on his way home, I knew he had a long run so I asked him did you pull over ( need rest ) ....he was quiet for a second or two and then he said yeah - yeah. And then what he said!!! -Is It Okay With You?!.......I mean what's wrong with his head? -I just asked if he pulled over had a good sleep. I hate it when he says that! And it's all the time. Makes me feels like I have no rights to ask anything. I don't ask anything bad!
2007-02-24 00:19:19 · 7 answers · asked by Hunca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He may have felt as though you were interogating him. Next time, try qualifing your question like: "Did you pull over and rest?, because I'd hate for you to get into an accident because you're tired, because I want some lovin when you get home".
2007-02-24 00:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Doright 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why it upsets him so if you make a simple inquire. Now are you sure that is all it is or are you constantly calling to check up on him? Anyone would be annoyed by that no matter what you are asking. Are you calling him while he is driving? how are you asking these questions? are you casual and friendly so he knows how you mean it or are you grilling him in accusatory tones? If you really are doing nothing like nagging or mistrusting him with no reason...maybe there is a reason.
2007-02-24 08:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my husband for 25 years. I would never act rudely with him, no matter how 'tired' I was, and I wouldn't put up with him being rude to me. No excuses. Since you have been together for 9 years, I can only assume that this isn't a new thing. Maybe you can talk with him about it, sometimes people say things and just don't realize HOW rude they sound or HOW much they offend.
Good luck!
2007-02-24 08:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jaye16 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my man is the same way he two drives a truck i think it just the way they are if we ask anything we are trying to run there life when all we really want to know is if thy are OK to drive i give up on it just say OK see you when i see you and let it go
2007-02-24 11:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are boring in your home much and you need to have patition with your husband and you cant have more time with him. you can choice 3 ways
1. you can suffer in this position be marry with him
2. you can cheat him when he was away from your home
3 you can leave from him and be alone to find a man who loves you much
2007-02-24 11:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by ovelik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not take that serious. Such a tired person may answer something odd. You should understand his situation.
2007-02-24 08:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always have the right to ask.
2007-02-24 08:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋