wats wrong with me
2007-02-24 00:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by melissadinon 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Assuming you just started having sex for the first time recently, then there's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Alot of women are very tight down there after losing their virginity, and that's perfectly normal. The most important this that you need to use lube (non-petroleum based), and you have to relax, really relax. The lube with help things go smoother, and when you relax, your muscles in your vagina loosen. If you're tense, then everything tightens up. Most girls tell him to keep going even though they're tense, and that's where the pain and bleeding comes from. Just take your time, make sure that you're really comfortable with the guy, and relax. It will get better, I promise, and it certainly won't always be like this!
If you've been having sex for a long time now, and this is a new problem, all I can suggest is seeing your doctor. Unless you're with a new partner who is significantly bigger than your last, in which case see my advise in the paragraph above! :)
Good luck!
2007-02-24 00:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 09:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is likely that you are not moist enough when you start. Either because you are not properly aroused or some other reason. You can buy over the counter sterile lubricants to use before you start having sex to help with this.
2007-02-24 01:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeech i have the same problem it really sucks. if it hurts i say stop trying and just mess around for a bit. and see a doctor if u want to, just to be on the safe side. and if you really wanna try again make sure ur really comfortable with everything...where you are, who you're with, what you're doing etc cuz if you're nervous you ain't gonna enjoy it so much. x
2007-02-24 00:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by charlii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a woman and are having this problem for some time it looks like you are suffering from dyspareunia: not enough vaginal lubrication due to hormonal imbalance. See your endocrinologist now.
2007-02-24 02:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only your Doctor can answer this. You need to get a check up. The same happened to me afew years ago and it turned out I had precancerous cervical cells.Check out the following site.
http://www.merck.com/mmpe/sec18/ch242/ch242e.html
2007-02-24 00:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by whtecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that your having sex just once a month
2007-02-24 00:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by SN00PY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be from not having it engouh or having too much but i would go see a doctor and ask the doctor what to do because i really can't tell you wish i could...sorry....
2007-02-24 00:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by geostrom b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a woman, you have to hurry up, it happens to me, and i had to go for a collposcopy, it means that I had a very common virus, that eventually give you ovarian cancer, I can't not remember the other name for it but please go for a checkup.
2007-02-24 00:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you man or woman?
2007-02-24 00:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Noni Walia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋