my girlfriend of 2 years was shagging another guy, unknown to me. It's been 8 weeks since we split and i have found out ihave an STD. As i have not been with anyone else during and since, it must have been her. Should i tell her or let her suffer? I'm inclined to let her suffer, or let her know through her parents.
2007-02-23 23:46:27 · 14 answers · asked by vnhlsng 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes do tell, her parents, a local radio station, hire a billboard whatever it takes to get the message across about this filthy whore and what she did to you ! Make it so the whore is never wanted by a man again. Although the thought of not revealing that information and hoping the whore will become infertile or have further complications may be very tempting but would take to long for any real satisfaction !
2007-02-23 23:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you were an unsuspecting victem that got caught in her little game and boy did you get caught.this does not say anything about this broad as you can not even really call her a lady after doing this.but just think if you got caught unsuspecting how many others will? i would definatly tell her what she has given to you but not really go to her parents unless you can not find her for some reason.trying to pay her back makes you as small as she is though and you need to rise above that and be the better person.just try and learn from this and move on.good luck
2007-02-24 00:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her know personally, especially since it can be hard for females to tell if they have certain kinds of STDs. If she has some STDs for too long, it can mess her up internally. So tell her. Now.
And tell it to her privately. Telling her parents is a bullshit move.
2007-02-23 23:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you must tell her.Her new boyfriend may have an STD in the future.If you won't do that.She is going to suffer all the time!!!!!!!
2007-02-23 23:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by ecates3wear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your anger twords her.. but if you dont tell her then whats the difference between you and her. jus because she acted like an *** doesnt mean that you must also be one.. so i suggest you tell her and let her deal with it her self.telling her boyfriend or telling her parents is rubbish because then youl look like the bad guy trying to get your revenge on her
2007-02-23 23:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by kathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue her for causing you pain and suffering. Let her find out when she gets served the court papers.
2007-02-23 23:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by reallyconfuzzled1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. If she is this much of a ho you don't want someone else catching whatever shes got. Don't spread rumors and don't do this through her parents either.
2007-02-23 23:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her know so that she should not go about spreading it to other people. If you don't tell her now she might spread it to many people including your own brother or sister.
2007-02-23 23:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think telling her parents is a good idea. Telling her new boyfriend would be the best idea.
2007-02-23 23:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put her parents in it that rude and private. but you should let her know. what if it were you, would you want someone to let you know that you burned them? would you want them to let you know thru your parents? i know she was wrong but females can get and disease called pid (pelvic inflammatory disease) which can make them sterile. so she needs to be treated as soon as possible and she needs to let her other partner no
2007-02-24 00:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋