Should I commit suicide since my love life is a complete failure?

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Question Details: I am considering suicide because of my failed lovelife. I need advice.

Here are my problems:

1.I'm a 32 year old virgin who has never kissed a girl
2.Every girl on this planet thinks I'm ugly.
3.Every girl on this planet refuses to go on a date with me.
4.I use tactics from Maxim, FHM, and Stuff to hunt for girls and they don't work. I subscribe to all 3 and have every issue.
5.I hate women because of all the rejection they have given me. 6.I hate women because they use their bodies to get free rides in life.
7.I hate women because they have no difficulties in life. They can get sex anytime they want. If they need a boyfriend, all they have to do is lift up their shirt. What is so difficult about being a woman?

I really need some advice here but please don't tell me to seek counseling because I won't do it. It won't put a girl on my arm. Getting a girl is more important than counseling.

Answer 1

American women are worthless and pathetic. They are selfish and they are dogs. They only care about themselves. Get an Asian woman. They know how to respect a man.

Answer 2

Here are my suggestions:

1.That's alright if you never kissed a girl at 32. It just means that you are still in the progress of doing so
2.Hey ... if you have a face, its not disfigured, u got 2 arms and legs and is a perfectly healthy male. u are not ugly.
there are people born without a decent face or limbs so count yourself blessed ok
3. on the planet is an overstatement but i know what you mean.
don't try to hard cos people can tell.
have you tried the dating agencies?
4.FHM MAXIM etc, u are right they dont work. try something else
how about yahoo groups where there is a social groups for dating singles .... but go on a pretext that u are making new friends not looking for a gf. dont stress yourself up by hunting for a gf cos u scare them all away.

5. hmm finding love u risk being hurt. it happens to gals too. happens to me too.

6. uhhhh not all use their bodies ... maybe u should relook at where u find these gals. if they are at the clubs they just probably looking for good fun. u just hooking yourself up with the wrong type of gals. try places like church, hobby class, social dance classes. i think u meet more serious people there.
7. not true. look at 6

u might want to seek counsel though. cos only a trained 3rd party can identify your problems
taking your life is a silly thing to do cos u cant get a decent gf.
there are more impt meaningful things in life other than getting hitched

Answer 3

Ok seriously! How stupid can you get? Hav you ever considered that you unknowingly give off a vibe that women pick up on? I mean hello half your points included the phrase "i hate women"
And to let you in on a lil secret it is neva easy being a women and if you cld get your head outta ur butt 4 to seconds you wld realise that. And by the way no mentally stable girl will go for a guy who is talkin about suicide because he doesnt hav a gf. Believe me there are a lot more ppl with bigger problems than that. So why dont you stop being so self-involved and do something for others and try get our head straight because really this isnt exactly the biggest issue in the world. You'll probably find that you, are along with the "I hate women" vibe you are also sending out the "I'm really desperate" vibe. So jst stop worryin about it and you'll find that more women might show an interested and by the way try bein more open... it also helps

Answer 4

Your very analytical aren't you ! you probably work very hard and are very well educated and expecting tue love, the nice house and white picket fence and 2.5 children to be the definition of a perfect life ! But gues what most of those people are full of sh-t ! Thats why the divorce rate is so high and so many women have affairs seeking attention or "love" ! Their all whores don't even think a whore is worth dying over ! Do some travelling, it will open your mind, give you diverse life experience and make you more interesting to the opposite sex, also do the on-line thing, but for the ultimate - visit Thailand 60 bucks US for a gorgeous model for the night ! live the fantasy man !

Answer 5

Dude... I can understand exactly what you're going through. Heres a couple of tips:

1. Go to the gym, get a trainer and a program for 3-4 months to tone your body & build up good muscles and abs.

2. Get a black shirt & blue jeans

3. Hang out at a bar wearing the above clothes, once you get inside the bar, keep your shirt unbottoned so women can have a glance at your "good" body.

4. Be as you are - nice to women

You follow these four tips - women will start flocking around you, asking for dance or taking it further....man you can have umpteen number of one-night-stands as you wish!!!

Man, remember this thing from me - we seek women with either good looks or good body. The same way women also look for men with good looks or good body. That is how life works

good luck.

Answer 6

1. You cant get dates because you hate women. DUH.
2. If you think women are so shallow that they have no difficulties in life than you don't deserve a woman.
3. Women reject you because you are mean and stupid, instead of ugly.
4. There is someone for everyone and a lot of women don't care what you look like but how you act.
5.Go find a Lurchette.

Answer 7

No way, man! Did you see the movie: A night at the Roxbury? Those guys were single in the begining, and loving it! Same with Wanyes World, and, well almost every other type of Saturday Night Live Movie. Just go out and have fun.

P.S-Girls don't have it that easy. What if they're really bad looking under thier shirt. Their screwed!

Answer 8

It seems like you're obsessing about getting a girl. You should take up new hobbies to take your mind off girls. Plus it gives you an opportunity to meet new people and you'll have something interesting to talk about.

Girls can tell when you're using tactics from Maxim, FHM etc, totally a put off. You're better subscribing to Cosmo or other girly mags to find out what girls really want.

Answer 9

I can very much relate to your problem. I've been through much the same thing.

I think I can help you but I'm not willing to go into great detail and depth in this answer as you may not even read it, while others certainly would.

By withholding your e-mail contact you've boxed yourself further in. If you want to know my experience and advice, e-mail me (click my profile).

I may not be able to answer for a couple of days as I'm travelling in Laos.

Answer 10

ok.....so here it is.....you can't get a girl because of your attitude.....if that is your real picture, then you certainly don't look ugly....however, your attitude is pretty ugly.....how many times in this short question do you say you hate women? Well then, that attitude comes across to women you meet so either forget about a love life or clean up your act.....it's not the women pal, it's you....good luck

Answer 11

You can't be for real!
YOu hate women but you want one????? Guess what message they're getting. You want a woman to lose your virginity and for your ego. It's no wonder you're in the situation you're in.
Why don't you try liking a girl? For herself, not just for what YOU can get out of it.
You do need counselling.