well i know this guy for about a yaer and although we are very close he seems to be imune to all the signals i give him and dosent have a clue that i'm crazy about him! i cant directly tell him nor can i stay in the dark for long. sometimes he acts like he likes me and then there are times i feel he ignores me! what do i do?
2007-02-23 23:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by kathy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry but i think I have to say this.
I believe he's not blind, he's pretending
not to see you..
LOVE tells all, I believe he can sense it.
But it's just you in this love angle . .
if he loves you too you would definitely sense it.
if you let him know, he might distant himself,
BE CAREFULL . .
:
..
2007-02-23 23:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a year of close friendship this guy must get at least one or more of your signals unless his a gay not guy or totally blind -made of bricks or just a shy guy,maybe he needs you just for a friend and not ready for a commitments
move to your second phase and invited him in a very romantic diner with candles and ask him to spend a weekend out of town or a long drive where you can be alone with him
this is the coup eta on your part and i think he will respond
goodluck!!!
if he didnt respond start looking for a real man
goodluck!!
2007-02-23 23:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels the same way but is afraid to make the first move. :) according to what you written, he's blind, so he doesn't want to accept no as an answer from you, why don't you just make it clear to him, if is also hard for you to make the move, just kiss him and tell him you love him...
It doesn't bite to tell someone how you feel, but it kills to receive No as an answer, i believ that's what he's afraid of..
Moreover, i envy you, for falling in love with him, i feel what you feel for me would be forever and never feels like it's tainted, because what's the essence of letting go when you know you'll later break up with a blind guy..
Hope this helps
2007-02-23 23:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love with the thought of that wild guy.
excitement is all it is.
go away from him, and seek someone else. if you can't stay away, then it is probably like i said the thrill.
if you can stay away, but still think about him all the time, it's time to just fess up and lay your cards out on the table
2007-02-23 23:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should definetly tell him. and it also might boost his self esteem greatly! if you dont want to tell him ask him out as friends then let things play out!
2007-02-23 23:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, maybe he feels the same way but is afraid to make the first move. :)
2007-02-23 23:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by amistwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably hiding his own feelings.
why don't u start of by telling him how u feel
if doesnt work, move on
2007-02-23 23:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lil' Billz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it`ll be difficult..if you love him so much..but don`t be sad..I am sure if some day you `ll got his love...you must pattient about that. don`t be surrender...just going to get your love..
2007-02-23 23:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by dora emon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and see if he will come clean
2007-02-23 23:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him
when in doubt just ask ... i know it must be torturous
2007-02-23 23:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by littlepurplebugz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋