2007-02-23 22:30:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it should be the guy of course. i cant imagine myself paying for a guy on my first date.
2007-02-23 22:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by machooletz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. The modern view is that whoever asked for the date should pay. The traditional view is that the guy should pay, but then the traditional view was also that the guy should be the one to ask. If he does not pay, she will be confused as to whether it's a "real" date, and would be extremely surprised (and possibly offended) if he later tried to kiss her.
Going dutch (splitting it equally) is very formal and the universal sign of disinterest. For guys, if you really like the girl, be prepared to pay. She will feel special and appreciate it. The girls should bring some money just in case, but if he likes you he will almost certainly pay.
hope this helps! x
2007-02-24 06:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by blondewithbrains333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's a real date, the guy should pay.
2007-02-24 06:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoever invited the other person to the dinner.
2007-02-24 06:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of a traditionalist when it comes to dating....the guy should pay in my opinion
2007-02-24 06:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a hand down ?, if you the one ask her out , it got to be the man place to pay
2007-02-24 06:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever asked the person out.
2007-02-24 06:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man of course women feel loved if they do
2007-02-24 06:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by Thalia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude should pay - call it traditional, but that's the way it is.
2007-02-24 06:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked for it you pay.
2007-02-24 06:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by bigblockburb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋