2007-02-23 22:22:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am very happily married, and well over 30
I just asked a question because I was interested to see what response I got.
2007-02-23 22:51:01 · update #1
What a dumb question!
I am 41 and as far as I'm concerned women of 30 are little more than girls.
Anyway, if they are pretty, smart and have a healthy bank balance then they will have no problem at all finding a husband.
However, given the statistics released this week regarding the long term decline of marriage I would suggest that any smart women would avoid marriage like the plague!
2007-02-23 22:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am just about to hit 30 in a couple of months and after having a small crisis about this am resolved that it's going to be great. Apparently 30 is the new 21!
I am certainly not scared about not getting a husband. Why what's so great about it? You say you're unhappily married so it's hardly making me feel I'm missing out.
Besides it's not as if there are great pickings out there.
A womans worth is not based on her having a husband or kids by the time she's 30.
I'm about to be 30 and have no desire to get married or have kids; you'd think the men would be queuing up. It's only other women who feel that I would be getting "past it" that I was obviously desperate to be changing nappies and cleaning up after some bloke.
Women fought long and hard to get the kind of independance we have now and we should cherish this.
Besdies marriage may be good for society but it can be very bad for the induvidual!
2007-02-24 04:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to life than getting a husband. Of course I want to get married and have children but if I never meet the right one I will accept it. I refuse to marry second best. I focus on my own goals, life, hobbies and friends and I cannot see why an unmarried older woman has to be lonely and sad just because there is no man. The only people who will be worried are those who hail from the 1950s and earlier, those who think it's a problem or a shame. I don't care what others think. Of course, it will be irritating if people start to introduce me to this and that "great guy" thinking they should do anything to help me out of my pitiful situation. I'm more scared of marrying the wrong one and being unhappy in marriage than not finding one at all.
2007-02-24 08:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Blodeuedd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for over 15 years and my hubby is more like my best friend and lover but i don't need him I'm very practical and independent i would be lost without him though he is my be all and end all, but we have friends over 30 single beautiful, good jobs and loads a money they don't bother about having a husband they are quite happy and content don't threat about it babes when your ready the right person will come along theres someone for everyone it's a huge planet lol. Just enjoy life for now you only have one as the saying goes and not everyone chooses to marry these days anyway if my daughters never want to marry we fine with that it's their life after all cheer up :)
2007-02-23 22:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by clare w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't worry about it. You will meet some nice guy. If is you that you are talking about. It just might be a question you asked and every body here thinks you are over 30 and need a husband.It just goes to show you that most of the people here don't get the whole pic. And for those ladies who answered this and say you don't need a husband you just say that because you are the ones who cant get on. Not this sweet women. All of you need to get a life and stop being know it all because you don't know S__T
2007-02-23 22:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, not scared in the slightest, I have a son I adore,a happy life and if a man who I would want to marry came along then that would be fine and add to it but I'm not loosing any sleep over being 34 and single, just being thankful for what I have and enjoying it.
2007-02-23 22:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 25 and not scared as such that i'll never find a hubby, i would like to meet someone that i want to spend the rest of my life with, but ive got other priorities at the moment, and surely you get what you want when you arent looking for it no??
2007-02-23 23:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jessbess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister is nearly 32 and to my knowledge has never had a boyfriend OR a girlfriend for that matter, she is very career orientated and just isnt interested in the slightest!
2007-02-23 23:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im man, but would say why should you be afraid if you are single over 30? I would say - get to know yourself, treat yourself well. Persue your interests, enjoy your weekends. In other words - live your life!!
If you happen to meet someone you get on with, great. But if not - you will enjoy your life anyway...
2007-02-23 22:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Female's worst Asset - INSECURED state of mind-Insecurity killed the cat. Come out of it. A female of 30 in any part of the world can get what she wants that includes petty things like --- HUSBAND too..Speak your mind to the men you want to be and act like a 30 your old..that is ..be strong and bold..that would put you class apart from sissie babies and you would surely create a ROOM for your age.
2007-02-23 22:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by california_beach_boyz 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋