can people fall in love over the net before meeting ?

Answer 1

ohhhhhhh yes.

Answer 2

Some people can while others cannot. Most difficult however is the definition of "love". And indeed, the net is just another place one can meet people. You can meet your love by accident in the supermarket. Today the net is available as well.

Answer 3

well, i think before meeting they talk alot, seen photos of each other and are probably only in the state of liking, i think until you meet the person physically, you can only imagine in your head what they look like. you can claim to feel some butterflies here or there. i think you can only measure your love truly once you meet the other person in the flesh.
people portray all kinds of attitudes on the net. so the meeting part is also important, you need to know for real what you are dealing with.
good luck if you are in such a spot.

Answer 4

You know, normally I'd say no, I've always been against on-line dating etc. But I met someone quite by accident on the net and yes, before we'd even met, we got to know each other and fell in love. We've since met and she is my fiancee now.
I must agree with others here though and urge caution, especially for women. You must follow some common-sense precautions if you intend to meet them no matter how trustworthy they seem over the net.
But against my old preconceptions, yes, you can fall in love without meeting someone.

Answer 5

Love? Nope. You think it is love, but it is just your hormones talking. Look, anyone can reinvent themselves (aka LIE) on the net because there are no non-verbal clues. Don't be a fool. Don't fall for lies. You are letting your imagination run wild without sufficient information and coming to bad conclusions. Garbage in, garbage out.

On second thought, I guess you could fall in "love" over the net, but you will may be disappointed when you meet this mystery date and really get to know him/her.

You are in for many broken hearts. Try to physically meet him/her in person as soon as possible and as often as possible so you can REALLY get to know this person. And don't go alone.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Yes, people fall in love over the net before meeting.. Like what I am but not on net thru penpal before....Im married for almost 9yrs now im happily married.

Answer 7

I've met a few gfs online. To be honest, we have always exchanged photos or done web cam because yes, the physical attraction is an important part of any relationship. It depends on how you "advertise yourself". I've met up with some girls who state their interest is primarily "fun", and when I'm up for this its great.
I can't say that I have fallen in love before meeting. I'm really cautious about meeting up with men, so I can't comment on that. I have certainly felt really hot for someone I've met online - especially if we have been doing webcaming - that can be really intense.

Answer 8

Yes but more on a mental level, you have this idea of the person and you might enjoy conversation so much that you start to build a fantasy. But when you meet that person in person it might be different. My best friend is actively searching for a wife for many years now. Many times he told me how much he enjoyed the online converstation and how much he looked forward to meeting her, and then when I question him about his date, his responses are always a far cry from his original enthusiasm. Responses always are "not what I expected" "a completely different person" "not what the photo says" "no connection". So yes, you can, but it would be very shallow and just a mental concoction of what you think he/she is.

Answer 9

I definitely think it's possible. Physical attraction is only one aspect of a relationship, so certainly a very strong bond can be formed between two people from conversation alone.

Even though I think it's possible, I acknowledge there might be a stigma around it. I can't imagine that too many people would be thrilled to go around to their friends telling them about the love of their life whom they have yet to meet in the flesh. I think that for validity, any relationship, no matter how close, still needs to be confirmed in person.

Answer 10

YES!! I did! I fell in love with my partner on line, before we had met. When we did meet, there were definatley things about him, and about me too, that we had both slightly exagerrated, but we are fundamentally the people we were online. We have now been together for almost 2 years, have lived together for 18 months and despite many obstacles, such as a 36 year age gap, we are very, very happy!

Answer 11

You can really, really like someone but not love them because everyone is different online to how they are in real life.
The only way to actually fall in love with someone is to spend time with them and get to know them really well & to have experienced things together chatting on a pc doesn't do that.

It is possible to meet your husband / wife online I met my hubby in a chatroom but we were boyfriend & girlfriend and spent time together before we got married.