2007-02-23 21:24:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I know what you mean. Don't worry sweetheart....talk to him...talking can do wonders to a couple :) Just be open and honest....if you're afraid tell him...he needs to be filled in too.
Keep talking till you reach a level where you're comfortable enough...if it's intercourse you're worried about don't have it on the first night....talk all the time in the world...easy step by step....and when you feel ready and having talked enough...nice n slow....with as much love and affection as can be :)
Good luck :)
2007-02-25 01:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by big h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you didn't give more info it is hard to answer your question.
I would advise you to talk to your mother.
If it is physical abuse you are worried about, you should go home to your mother. No use in spending another night with him.
An annulment would be much cheaper than staying and end up going through an expensive divorce.
If it a sexual matter then I would hope your man would be compassionate and the two of you could talk about it and he would handle it with care.
It is so important to be up front with each other right from the start of your marriage. Tell him you are now lovers and he is your best friend. Talk to him like you would your best friend.
I do wish I could be of more help to you. I will have you on my mind and I will be worrying about you.
2007-02-23 21:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex on the first night. Take your time to get to know each other's bodies and to get close before your first time. Even if it takes a week, it will only be better for both of you. Also talk to him about it, maybe he has the same fears.
Good luck
2007-02-23 21:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by Changed by Lithium 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Afraid in a good way or bad way?
If it's his you know what, noone can help you
but if it's something like violence or something like that do no let it go on or worse ignore it becuse if that has happened on your first night imagine how it would be in a couple of years.
Men that hit once will do it again, do not let happen taht to you.
2007-02-23 21:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by liza 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband that your afraid. First night is the best night in your married life my husband told us... So dont missed it.. Dont be afraid its your husband...
2007-02-23 22:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by edsky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Escape from second night
2007-02-23 21:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋