Wus sup im 21 u kno, but yeah I known this girl since High School I liked her back then but we never got to go out cuz she moved. But now i heard shes back and we been talkin again but she gots a babygirl now, but single. So wut u girls think, u think the puppy love we had once is gone, to late?
2007-02-23 21:20:49 · 15 answers · asked by MrSilent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesn't matter if she has a kid! you should look at the relationship and stop being an @$$!
2007-02-23 21:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be despised and flamed for this but I'm going to tell you what I think for your own good, so here is my sincere advice to you:
Find a compatible match for yourself that is childless, build a relationship, marry and begin a family of your own. Don't get trapped into having to raise another man's kid, let some other poor sap have that fate.
If you really want to know how it feels to be in a relationship where you always play second best to someone else, never have the freedom to just enjoy each other, and are constantly judged by the girl's parents, friends and family... then fall in love with a woman who already has a baby or young kid.
You are still very young, there is a wonderful chance of you finding a nice girl to committ with that is *totally* available to you and does *not* have a kid already from another man.
Forget your ideas about rekindling the puppy love, be an adult and be aware of the consequences.
2007-02-23 21:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should grow up and be a man and date her anyway. You may learn a thing or two about fatherhood without even having to undertake the responsibility of being the actual father. Just go for it and take life by the reigns.
2007-02-23 21:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by nowheretogofromhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to be frends before anything else. If you two can become friends above anything ese then you most likely will be able to have a very good life together. All three of you.
2007-02-23 21:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say, it is better to get to know her in a non-dating environment
and make sure you will be one of her dearest and closest friends...
but if you really want to date her, that is fine... really fine... i say, go for it...
but be responsible, even make sure that someone will take care of her child when the two of you go out... she'll like that, since that will save her from all worries during the night
and give her all the support she needs, i bet it is hard... so hard... to be a single parent
2007-02-23 21:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by maia clandestine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should. If you are even thinking that the kid is a bad thing, or else you wouldn't have asked this question, then you will not give her the attention or love she deserves.
2007-02-23 21:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cool guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in mind that they are a PACKAGE DEAL!!!!
Children latch on quickly when they are young... mom is vulnerable...
If you couldn't treat that baby girl as your own if things develop, then please don't play with their emotions.
Give it some good thought. That little girl may bring a lot of sunshine into your life, too! ; )
2007-02-23 21:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by HJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a kid should change that. Were your feelings there still b4 you knew she had a kid if you awnser yes go for it. You need to think of it in these terms your dating her and not her baby girl.
2007-02-23 21:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by somegirl22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it as long as you are cool with the responsibility of the kid.
2007-02-23 21:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Enjoying Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gonna say that s clever having a baby kid thought kids were goats what you meant was a child
2007-02-24 00:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by arniesmum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋