Been going out with this guy for 2yrs, haven't had dinner date, no movie date, never hanged out together with his friends or mine, he never hanged out with my kids. He keeps saying bec we r both very busy, and he seems to have a lot of long time female friends he continue to have contact with. He seems to sincerely care and we hang out a lot at his place & we play sports 2-3x/wk like buddies but... somethings seems wrong or I'm confused. He says he cares and we are exclusive BF/GF but we don't seem to do normal couple activities! Should I worry or just keep hanging out since it seems we get along fine as long as I don't ask for more than late nite get together. I want more but I don't think he does even though he says I mean a lot to him. Yikes! I feel like I'm asking a question I already know answer...but could I be mistaken?
2007-02-23 21:08:16 · 3 answers · asked by MsItsMe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur kidds are or should be a huge part of ur life and if he didn't pay attention to them then. Wipe him out of ur memory u deserve someone who will show u off and spend time w/ ur kids ans well
2007-03-03 17:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Happily Taken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. You are either the other woman, or just a friend with bennies. What should you do? That depends on what you want. Apply the WIFM solution - What's In it For ME - if you want more, you have already established it is not gonna happen so move on. Quit wasting your time and enabling him with guaranteed sex and companionship without the commitment you need. As it is, it sounds like he is getting everything he needs out of you and you are not getting anything you need out of him. That's not being fair to yourself to put up with.
Good luck, HTH
2007-02-24 05:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Anyway it's your choice.
2007-02-24 05:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by exo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋