I'm a Christian follower,Sometimes,I really acted like a weirdo about how I walk and talk to people like I don't know and very nervous,insecure about everything else when I'm not in a good mood.I have 2 group of friends.One group has doesn't care ,straightforward about my doing like this,but they won't tell that I'm doing wrong ,for them it's always like it's ok for them even though it is not.I'm also much close to them but there's something quite not right.Another group of friend,who are more proactive,prankster,confident,positive,intelligent type of person.They will the one who will told me sometimes like:"You know Chelsy,I think you should change your weird way of walking and talking so that boys and everyone will like you and ypou will have a bunch of friends."But the thing is I'm not so close to them,and I think I'm getting even more hurt and confuse to know who is talking real for my sake .Help me wake up for the good and right track
2007-02-23 20:47:48 · 7 answers · asked by foreigner_lady 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
~ Magandang Gabbie (spelling?)... you sound like a precious Filipina... good evening, foreigner_lady... Chelsy?...
~ Don't worry about acting like a weirdo around people...
~ You have your 'space'... you have your customs... you were raised to certain standards...
~ Wow... two groups of close friends: most people are not that fortunate. Let me see if I got this correct:
~ ~ One group gives you a blessing, no matter what you do.
~ ~ The other group you are NOT so close to, but they are encouraging you to be more 'ACTIVE' to get dates, etc.
~ Out of your own mouth, foreigner_lady, your heart spoke... what did you say? "...I'm getting even more hurt and confused to know who is talking real for my sake."
~ You ALREADY KNOW which path to take.
~ You, my dear foreigner_lady, are a Proverbs 31:10-31 woman... The Lord is preparing you for your future husband... in His good timing and His good will...
For you to listen to the 'world' and get advice from the 'world' is what Satan wants... Satan already has them, he's using your proactive group of friends to get you to sin, therefore you may give up on Christianity.
~ Remember, foreigner_lady... Satan DOES NOT DESERVE YOU! Jesus Christ is your Creator... he knows the numbers of hairs on your head... He has your new name waiting for you... you are His...
~ Be faithful to yourself, foreigner_lady... Jesus loves you... so do I... so do your Christian friends. Get back into the Bible Studies... be an Acts 2:42 Christian.
~ ~ Studying the Apostle's Doctrine... The Word
~ ~ Taking Communion
~ ~ Breaking of bread
~ ~ In fellowship
~ ~ ~ Here, in the Fellowship with other believers, is where you will meet the friends that will give you the godly advice you need... they will be your support group... the Pastor's wife can give you council in areas you need help with... when your weak, you will have access to your sisters-in-christ to call... YOU KNOW THIS ALREADY... just go back to Bible Studies and stay in the Word... I know, you've got tons of school work (probably)... but... You know what YOU need.
Seek advice from Jesus Christ... one-on-one... you and Jesus... in your prayer closet / quiet place... even, in your thoughts at busy times... ask Him... Abba... Father... what shall I do about ... how can I walk your narrow path... give me confirmation on (this or that) thing that needs an answer.
~ You are already so very BLESSED, foreigner_lady! Rejoyce and give the Lord your praise and glory.
2007-02-23 21:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by James N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone tells you to change they typically are not your friend... but if you are running into a burning building to save a baby and someone tells you not to do it because it is dangerous... do you heed their beckoning cries?
Friends are unconditional, like the first group. I am definitely for pranksters (more in the antagonist meaning)... straightforward is quite a healthy way to communicate!
keep your head up and watch with the light caste from your own stars... what is more real to you is valid...
2007-02-24 05:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Invisible_Flags 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need new friends.
The first group doesn't like the things you do, but pretends to like you.
The second group is a group of trouble makers.
Its time to move on. And the bible isn't going to help you one bit. You need to find people that will like you for who you are and won't get you (or themselves) into trouble.
2007-02-24 05:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thanks for your question
I understood that you walk and talk weird or that's what they think
now the question that you must ask your self do you want to change your walk and talk style ?? if you do then you will change it
just don't do anything you are not convinced of doing
2007-02-24 04:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by abouterachess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must study Quran and Islam. Quran will satisfy you. Quran is purest book of Allah.
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2007-02-24 04:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Punter 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
gest read the bible and see what it said and you shald be you if you are crazy if people do not like you in your trow form you do not need them
2007-02-24 04:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by hotblondy200 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just ask for WISDOM from God..... so you can decide right and perfect.....
2007-02-24 05:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by 0001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋