I've been seeing this guy for a few months. He's 36 and I'm 20. When I'm with him there is no where else in the world that I would rather be. He makes me feel so wonderful and just gives me butterflies. But when I'm at home or not with him just the thought of him annoys me. He'll send me nice text messages or call me and it just bothers me.
I am so confused and just don't get it. Help please.
2007-02-23 20:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by dalbana5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all minds always think positive and negative. it is normal. important is which way your heart tilts. in this case you love to be with him. the moment you are with him all negative thoughts fly away, yes do hes the right man!
2007-02-23 20:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by curiousguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age is a big issue. it really depends on how you guys feel about each other and how he treats you. since he makes you feel so great, i really think that he's the one for ya. well.. give it some more time... =] cause its too early now. hmm.. mayb the reason it bothers you when u recieve his texts or calls is cause you may think he's too good to be true. honestly, he sounds like a really decent guy... regardless of the age diff. =]
sooo give it some time. =] Good luck~!
2007-02-23 20:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by leeloorox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is perfect and neither is love. love is an ambigious desire.
maybe it bothers you because you like having your own space when you're at home and to focus on your other aspects of life; therefore him texting/calling you could prove to be a distraction when you dont want him around.
the harder you fall for someone, the more expectations we have of them. you're annoyed probably because you realise he isnt perfect and that "special feeling" he gives you isnt long lasting even when you're alone at home.
2007-02-23 20:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by astella_interrupted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a fantasy about how a relationship should feel. Maybe you get this from movies, you expect to be swept off your feet and attracted to him in every situation. This is a fairy tale you need to be realistic with your expectations.
2007-02-23 21:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the age difference is quite large. Secondly, you appear to be unsure of your feelings towards him. So, be very cautious, in whatever you do, as any counselor would tell you, that chances of such a relationship stabilizing, are extremely remote, indeed!
2007-02-23 20:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried. You're a young woman and women NEVER know what they want but it get's better with age. Maybe you should consider going out with someone closer to your own age for a while.
2007-02-23 20:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by thelivinglegend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not the guy for u, if ur really into him u'll miss him a lot if ur not with him.....plus he's way older than u just forget him, there are many fishes in the sea, some even dolphins
2007-02-23 20:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by kalu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not meant to be with him. Maybe you just want someone and he happens to be that someone....?
2007-02-23 20:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
climate change
2007-02-23 20:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋