how can I be a great girlfriend?

Question

I really love this guy I go out with and I want to be the best girlfriend I can be. I try my best all the time but I want some tips and ideas on how to make our relasionship last? I'm sick of being heart-broken because it's happened to many times to me. Please help me and give me great tips and ideas....NO RUDE ONES. You'll just waste my time and yours.*

Answer 1

lasting relationship....trust...love..... "GOT GOD?"

Answer 2

Hi there
U seem to have fallen in love with the guy, but the problem is that whether or not the guy has the same feelings as u. U cant control anyones choice and so r u. Coz there are no limits to choices. I think u should always try to be u and if he likes u as u r then i bet ur relationship would last long.
Dont ever try to be what he wants u to be.
Just be urself girl.
All the best

Answer 3

I assume you don't want the truth

However, since I honestly believe chicks have ABSOLUTELY NO volitional control over the men they 'select" and since you indicated a repetitive pattern - you are probably only attracted to cheaters over and over again - including this one

I suggest then - simply don't ask him too many questions

Cheating for men is quite natural in fact - and in turn it's quite natural for female's to be attracted to such men - as such men can optimize women's genetic chances over the the long haul

It's all part of the natural order

Alternatively, chicks who for example jog several miles a day or swim 3 or 4 times a week and sometimes wear ponytails and like short shorts now and then - might be able to hold one man's attention better than average - so that might be an exception for some men

Answer 4

Be yourself. That's why the man wants to date you...because of who you are. Make him someone to spend time with, but not the entire focus of your life. Be sure to maintain your friends and life, even after you start dating. Men RUN the other way when they feel like the women are too suffocating. Maybe you should try being friends with the guys first, as it sounds like maybe you rush into things a little too much if you're constantly being heart broken. (That sucks, and I'm sorry to hear that!) Seriously, though...if you're friends first, the guys tend to be far more careful with your feelings. Do what you can to make him feel special, but be sure not to give up on yourself. Be who you are. If you're ordinarily quiet, stay that way. Open up to him when you feel ready, but don't rush things. If he hurries you to get involved physically, run the other way. A man who waits until you both feel ready is worth finding. Relationships built on friendships with common interests last the longest. Get to know him and the things he really likes. If you're not a huge sports fan, then encourage him to go to games with his friends and go out with YOUR friends that night. Learn to appreciate his interests without pretending their yours, too. Men like women who don't.....they like real people. Be yourself, and don't suffocate. The right guy will come along, but take it slow.

Answer 5

be yourself. if he cant except you for who you are then he isn't worth it anyways. The best kind of love is when you can love someone unconditionally and they can love you in the same way. . If you aren't being yourself then that will never happen. Plus, you sound like the type who likes to give and give and give. To make whoever your trying to please, happy. Thats a great trait to have, you just have to make sure that this guy doesn't walk all over you. you have to know when you are going to the draw the line with what you will do for him and what you wont. relationships have to be give and take. If you area always giving and he is always taking, not doing his fair share of giving then you aren't in a healthy relationship. I'm like you and i know what its like. haha. good luck and i hope this helped a little!

Answer 6

From a guys standpoint dont make him do anything he doesnt want to do... Dont embarrass him. Also dont throw yourself all over him keep close but give him some space. And some girls think its cute to hit or slap a guy in the chest just for fun but actually it's kind of annoying

Answer 7

At the end of the day hun, you can only be yourself with anyone - be true to who you are and don't act any differently to impress this guy. He must accept the beautiful person you are or he's not worth your efforts. Stop worrying what other people think and be capable and strong and KNOW YOUR WORTH.

Best wishes.

Answer 8

Be independent: No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit.
Be intelligent: The bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. Guys love a girl who can meet there intellectual level.
Respect him you have to listen even if you don't agree and never demean or belittle him in any way shape or form. Never cause a scenes in public or in front of his friends and family; wait to discuss matters in public. The #1 rule don't nag.

Answer 9

BE YOURSELF!!!!

Try to understand stuff he like, and get him to understand the stuff you like. Share some of his interests (if you don't already). Go to church (or temple, synagogue, ect.) with each other. Be his best friend and confidante; a shoulder to cry on.

If you to can talk openly about anything, then you should have no problems.

Answer 10

Always be honest & transperent to ur freind and any type of miscommunication or misunderstanding shoud be discussed directely between the two instead of via third party. my kind wishes with u to be a g.g/f.

ur frnd.

Answer 11

Be yourself. That's the best advice there is. Because if you have to act a way that's uncomfortable for you, to keep a man, you will be unhappy for life.