2007-02-23 19:47:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but in different ways. So many differrent opinions eh!
2007-02-23 19:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man who has delved into this ridiculously confusing and difficult area, the truly honest answer is NO. If you look deep into your heart, and your mind, (because they do work in unison whether you want to admit it or not) you will find that you are in love with those two people for two completely different set of reasons. You may like the guy you started with, but you might have strayed because that second guy was giving you more attention, or sex, or appreciation, or gratitude. Whateverthe first one was giving you enough of, thats what youre getting; back and forth, most likely. But when it really comes down to it, you have to ask yourself a question and be truly honest with your answer. The day MAY come, when you HAVE TO DECIDE between the two of them. Either one could leave you if you dont make that call sooner than later. HEll, they BOTH might leave. Ask yourself: Who can I seriously not live without? If Jim, or Bob leaves, can I handle better than if Jimmy, or Craig left?
Thants the best way I can explain it. Oh, and by the way, no matter which one you pick, you're going to change your mind more than a few times and try to go back with the other dude. JUst a heads up there.
2007-02-23 19:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by B Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, because each person gives you something different, and you feel they each complete you in a sense in different ways. I think in this situation you should really sit down and evaluate each person, and either decide which one you want, and stick with your decision. It is also possible that neither one is right for you. Really think about it and decide because going back and fourth between two people can be extremely painful to them and to you. It might be the best idea to leave them both behind and move on, and find one person that has everything you are looking for.
2007-02-23 19:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can definetely love to people at once,but there's no way to love them equally (unless it's family your talking about).It might be hard to let one of them go because you have strong love for both of them,but you'll always love one more than the other because we all go through things in our life and need someone to be there in a significant way and only one 1 of the 2 people will be there in the way u need them to be.There's only 1 of the two people u can say been there with u through everything that u had to go through.
2007-02-23 19:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by DA_ONE_AND_ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because when you are truly in love, you feel wholly fulfilled and empowered. You feel like that person makes up for all of what you lack and challenges you to be a better person. They are the first person that comes to mind whether you have great news or terrible news. If you think that you love two people then you are never fully satisfied, empowered with, or devoted to either one because you are not with the other. I think it is a contradiction.
2007-02-23 20:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by summer7811 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its imposable you got to the one who treats u right and sertifies u the most there will never be like same love equal for 2 people it can be 70% and the other 30%
2007-02-23 19:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by garyshany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love more than one person at the same time, but you can't be *in love* with more than one person at a time.
Love is more of a commitment than a feeling. Love is hard work and devotion and sticking through things tick and thin. You may have feelings for more than one person, but love is more than that. Think about it.
Make a distinction between love and passion.
2007-02-23 19:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by spiral_movement 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's possible......I have feelings for 3 different men right now.....but 2 of them I have a lot stronger feelings for than the other. The other 3rd one I just started liking.
2007-02-23 19:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Love is all or nothing. If you're really in love, you will forget other men or women exist - there is only the beloved.
If a man tells you he loves you and some other woman, he doesn't love either one of you.
2007-02-23 19:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as possible to love 2 people at once..
but different kind of love...i.e. boyfriend/girlfriend, brother/sister, friend etc.
but love 2 people as in more then friends?
i honestly dont think so cuz if you really love someone you would be completly loyal to them even if it hurts them, they'll probably be relieved that you told them the truth
i hope i helped you :)
2007-02-23 21:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by xwillxalwaysxmissxhimx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋