I've been friends with Brian since ninth grade and we have recently become close in our senior year of high school, but he has a girlfriend of one year. He always complains about his gf to me, and all his friends think they are horrible together. he even said all of his other breakups have been long and dragged out and this will be the same. im 100% positive he has the hots for me and we are hanging out and drinking tmw, should i try and make a move, what should i do? my friends tell me to make a move, but i need another opinion
2007-02-23 18:39:48 · 9 answers · asked by goldie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If all his breakups have been long and dragged out affairs, and it sounds like this will be no different. Just wait it out, and be a good friend for the time being. It sounds like your turn will come..
2007-02-23 18:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Michael T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right this is the deal, you're suitable. in case you act controlling, insult her chum, yada yada... she will see you as a controlling jerk. Your ultimate guess is to be a reliable boyfriend. If she cheats on you with this guy, be grateful. Why? it is so a lot extra effectual to study that she is a cheater previously marriage than after. If she does not cheat on you, then you certainly've a reliable female. If the guy ever does make a flow, she will see it coming and distance herself from him. Your ultimate guess suitable now could be to "use" him to get a happier female chum. He does each and all of the hard artwork and gets no longer something. You "appreciate" her being happier. it fairly is win win. it is likewise a reliable hazard to work out if she is marriage textile. as an occasion: Does she study you to him or communicate all the way down to you?
2016-10-16 09:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tempting, but don't even dare.
Here's what could happen: you make a move, he bites, you fall for him, but he doesn't leave his girlfriend, and now you're the slutty friend who tried to steal someone's boyfriend.
If you really do like him, and he feels the same way about you too, then wait until he's available. If he cheats on his girl with you tomorrow, what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you too if you end up together?
2007-02-23 19:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by eissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should NOT make a move until he is single. If he truly liked you then he would break up with his gf first. Do not be the "other girl"
2007-02-23 18:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you freaking dare! i've been in that relationship spot!.it hurts like hell!
the girl would apreciate for him to break up with her first and then date you
NOT CHEAT!
and anyways put yourself in her position how would u feel if you were being cheated on cuz your b/f "didnt love you"?
honestly, think about it hun.
2007-02-23 21:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by xwillxalwaysxmissxhimx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how close...but yea i think you should tell him to break up with her if he is really unhappy then make a move
2007-02-23 18:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by prettyinpearls86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him go for it and see what he says or you can wait for him to break up with his girl but who knows how long that will be. so go for it!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-23 18:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, what do you have to lose.....And Maybe, just maybe that would be the nudge he needs to ditch the gf for good. And please, if you're going to drink, please don't drive. Good luck
2007-02-23 18:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋