ok well...for v-day, i gave this girl in my class a really beautifully made card and i told her my feelings is in the card....anyways...she starts to notice me ....making eye contact...but she still doesnt do anything not even talk to me...NOTHING and she doesnt show much sign of interests....anyways ....recently this other girl also starts to take notice of me ...like umm she smiles when she looks at me...and shes kinda shy around me stuff like that ..so should i just move on to a girl who acctually appretiates me or should i keep trying with the girl i gave a card to.....?
another thing.....if i just move on without tell the first girl how i really felt about her or asked what she felt....would she hate me later on if she HAD feelings for me?
2007-02-23 18:34:22 · 6 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just try a little longer to talk to the fist girl, and if nothing happens then you should just move on with the other girl. Give the first girl a little time maybe she'll like you but after a while. if you move on so fast you won't even give her itme and plus she'll be very confused and will think the card is a joke so I suggest you just wait a while and see what happens.good luck!
2007-02-23 18:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try talking to the girl that you gave the v-day card to. Have you ever thought that she may be to shy to say anything to you.
I mean you said you like her and you told her of your feelings for her and if she is to shy to say anything to you and then you jump onto another female as if she really didn't mean anything of course she is going to be hurt and it really wouldn't be fair to the other girl because you wouldn't feel the same for her as you do for the girl with the v-day card.
You made the attempt by giving her the card don't stop there.
If you really like her you'll talk to her to see if she feels the same about you before you move on.
2007-02-24 02:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude what kind of P***Y are you any way. The girl you give the card to thinks that you are less than manly. You are doomed to have a horribly subservient relationship with her. Concentrate on th girl that is interested in you, but do not, I repeat do not ever let her know that you like equally or more than she likes you!
2007-02-24 02:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by civilman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright, brah, here's what you should do.
personally, i'm no fan of using people, but i also believe that all's fair in love and war. check this... you need to give the other chick only slightly more attention. not enough to force her hand and make her go for you, but enough for your intended girl to take notice. girls are a notoriously jealous species and she will turn her attention to you. then, you move. go for it. the other person might be a bit mad, but if you can go about this with tact, it should work out quite nicely. email me if you have any problems with this.
2007-02-24 02:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by Luv Docta Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love the first girl? then go to her and tell her about ur feelings. don't think what will happen next. it's not right to develop relationship with someone who just appreciates u and there is no love between u two. so , do what your heart says.
2007-02-24 02:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by nazia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welt. the way i see it is that she is testing you but that is mine idea. but you should not wait for one girl bcuz it will take too long. so do what you think is right . that other girl might b mad at you for awile but she will gat over it.
2007-02-24 02:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by badgerboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋