i think this girl likes me... the signs are there... but lately i been ignoring her cause i guess i'm shy and shes shy too... and i guess we both been ignoring each other... but once in a while we always glance at each other and look away real fast... last week we look we made eye contact for about 3-4 seconds... that day she was waiting by the door when class was over and she was looking at me and i guess she was expecting me to say something, but i didn't i just walk past her like i didnt see her... since than i haven't glance at her since that happen...we did talk before it was 3 weeks ago... we talk about stuff, but after the conversation was dying she called herself a loser idk why she did that and she walk away and I told her no your not and that was it... and two days after that happen she ask me for a piece of gum while i was doing my work and after i gave her a piece she said i'm sorry for bothering you... i wanted to tell her today that i like her... but she wasn't at school today... and i couldnt tell her today cause i had an doctors appointment... so i'm just wondering do u think she still will be interest in me come this monday?... or u think she moved on?
2007-02-23 18:23:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No she didn't move on...she's thinking about you right now. Next time you see her, go up and tell her that you like her. Stop messing about...life is too short. Good luck.
2007-02-23 18:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Henry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the girl. I would think that would be obvious, amigo.
Whether or not a girl has "moved on" depends on a ton of factors like how interested she was to begin with, how many other prospects she has had (and if any of those prospects were more interesting than you), etc. There isn't a one size fits all answer here. Your best bet is to just make a move. If you crash and burn, no sweat. At least you will have the self-respect that comes with manning up and just going for the gold (so to speak) and there are perhaps decent odds that you might walk away with the girl.
2007-02-24 02:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has moved on then you did not need her in the first place. I think you should tell her that you like her first thing Monday morning we only live once and you have a lot of living to do. So try to not be so shy if you have to look down at the floor and tell her your interested in her. Not looking someone in the eye makes it easier sometimes. Good luck
2007-02-24 02:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She h\s issues with herself esteem ie: she lacks it. If you lack self esteem and confidence then just chatting can seem a task especially when she puts herself down and shes probably wondering why u are talking to her and taking an interest.
Keep talking with her, it might well help with her self-confidence.. If she chooses not to continue, maybe it is becaus she is shy and she doesn't know what to do next. Be the leader in this friendship maybe write to her and let her know that you are fond of her but are too shy to tell her..
Us women need surprises and reassurance sometimes..
good luck
2007-02-24 02:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On Monday flirt with her like crazy, until the week is over, make some lively convos and on the following Monday see if she notices you more, and her reaction towards you.
Good Luck!!!!!
BTW this sounds exactly like my situation (exactly)
2007-02-24 02:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really likes you she will continue to wait, if she is shy the chances of her moving on will be very slim, she will probably wait for you to make a move.
2007-02-24 02:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by gigi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
Play it cool. Do not tell her that you like her, Girls do not like guys that appear to be emotionally vulnerable. Act disinterested, it will drive her crazy. Never never ever let her know that you are wild for her it will give her the upper hand. Play it cool and she will be your puppet.
2007-02-24 02:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by civilman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're good. Just give her more attention (not necessarily flirting, though that helps too) in the future. Good luck.
2007-02-24 02:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by dudefungame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"How long does it take a girl to move on?" That depends on the girl.
2007-02-24 02:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases, a few minutes.
2007-02-24 02:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋