2007-02-23 18:17:11 · 11 answers · asked by Kirsten B 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You don't forget about it, you learn to deal with the hurt and disappointment and then move on with your life.
If it helps you can buy something to remind you of your angel baby like a teddy bear or a figurine. Or you can plant a tree or rose bush in his/her memory.
You won't forget, and you shouldn't try. You can just move forward and find strength in your experience.
2007-02-23 18:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by wendysorangeblossoms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it as it not being the right time yet, and GOD will give you a child when the time is right and when you get your baby your baby will be the one that got away and now your getting back the baby you lost, and you will never forget about it, but you will be happy when you finally do get your baby, I had a miscarriage and i was depressed for 2 months and had to be hospitilized and i finally talked to a pastor and he helped me deal with the pain, and when i found out i was pregnant 4 months later I felt as if GOD gave me back the baby i lost, and now that shes here im happy as ever and look back at it knowing that i was ready for a baby and because i did greive GOD knew I would be a great mother and Im sure you will be too, just give it time, and take prenatals now and try to get lots of folic acid in you to prepare your body for the baby, and try ovulex it helps you ovulate so this way the sperm will get to a ripe good egg! I hope everything works out the way you want it too!
2007-02-24 02:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I am so sorry. I lost 4. It was always sad but the worst mistake I made was with the last one. I did not grieve at first and tried to just accept the loss as God's will. I thought it was best to just stay strong but that isn't how God designed us. We need to feel it and have closure. Do not try to fill up the empty place with another pregnancy or outside interests. Believe me it will bubble up at a later time. I read a great book called, "Empty Arms" and it helped me so much and I then had the good cry that had been needed. I did not forget my losses but it does not hurt anymore.
2007-02-24 02:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You won't. You take one day at a time, getting through just one meal, one nap, one hour of work. Little by little, focusing only on what you have to do right that minute, until at some point you realize you went a while 5 minutes without thinking about it. And eventually 5 minutes increases. Until maybe you go most of the day without thinking about it. You won't forget, but the pain, eventually will fade. Don't work at forgetting, just work at coping.
2007-02-24 02:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by littleangelfire81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also suffered a miscarriage, so i feel your pain. You will never forget about it but in time the pain will fade. When i had the miscarriage a friend of mine told me to name the baby and to go to a place that was special to me and release a balloon into the sky with the name written on it. I personally found this helpful as it was a way of saying goodbye and letting go. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-24 02:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By nature, and considering you wanted the child, it's going to take awhile to heal, though you'll never forget. If you really want a child though, the only thing you can do is to get pregnant again. Who knows...that new fetus, if it survives, could hold the soul of your fetus you lost! I've heard others who've had miscarriages say they have wondered it possible after the next pregnancy was successful.
2007-02-24 02:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Byte-Sized Cookie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give yourself time to grieve. You lost something that was very special and you have to be patient.
I lost one and then another and you never forget, the pain does however lessen and you remember that God needed that angel for something else that is way more important than being here...and it maybe something so much more for you....you just never know. I bought angel ornaments and have them on my display shelf and they are my angels that I have watching over me.
Take time, be gentle with yourself, grieve and cry and do whatever it takes, it's normal.
2007-02-24 02:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wont forget it but i know a way to make it better. think of it this way: that at the last minute God needed an extra tiny helper to help pour the raindrops, puff the clouds, sprinkle the dew on the early morning grass, create snowflake designs as unique as herself/himself, wipe and clean the stars, moon and sun so they shine as bright as ever and, of course, help the newer angels figure their way around heaven! thats a very happy thought now isnt it!
2007-02-24 02:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by mikey0612 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.miscarriagesupport.org.nz/health.html
You will never forget about it. I had a miscarriage in 2005 and i haven't forgot about it but it does not hurt as bad as it did in the beginning.
2007-02-24 05:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forget it. Time will make it better and you need to give yourself time and permission to grieve. I wish you luck !!
2007-02-24 02:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by buff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋