I broke up with my ex a while ago b/c he didnt treat me right. After we broke up, his birthday came up, & I still cared about him even though I couldnt be with him (b/c he didnt treat me right) so I called him to wish him a happy bday & gave him a gift, it was something that I knew meant a lot to him. He said thank you for the gift & we kept in touch a bit afterwards but havent really talked since.
Yesterday was MY bday and I know for sure that he knew that it was my birthday. He didn't even call me to say happy birthday to me much less even get me anything (I wasnt expecting him to get me anything at all). But it just really hurts that he didnt even call me to wish me a happy bday. b/c he said he still cared about me even though we're not 2gether. But it's bothering me b/c I know he's a jerk & that hes not worth me making myself upset over but I cant help it. I've been depressed ever since my bday. I just really need some encouragement to stop moping around, please. :(
2007-02-23 17:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by tania l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww im sorry. that is really mean. he is selfish.. I am relally upset right now too, look at my previous quesiton. my bf went out tonight and balbla it makes me hurt and angry I dontknow what to do anymore im sittin here cryin oh geez. but My Bday was thhe 13th. my parents were promisin me this camera i wanted. like 100$, well my dad got drunk off the money instead and that hurt me andmy mom too it suck. I only got something from my BF whom I live with. I was very happy but I mean no one else got me anything i turned 18 i was hurt
2007-02-23 18:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys broke up; you say because he didn't treat you right. Now that you've broken up, you are still playing "Prove You Still Care About Me Game", and apparently he never learned the rules.
When people break up, they divest themselves from the relationship and move on at different rates. It is ok for you to take longer to grieve over the loss of the relationship, but TALK TO SOMEONE ELSE, not to your ex. That's just putting salt in the wound.
Finally, realize that you were in love with a dream that was never real. What you imagined the relationship to be, what you wanted it to be, what you imagined him to be -- all fantasy in your head. It never existed. You are having a hard time because you are having a hard time letting go of the fantasy, not of the guy.
2007-02-24 02:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by bearvarine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww I'm sorry :(((
You totally did the right thing though!
If he wasn't treating you right, you were the smart one to get out of there. You don't have to get over him right away, and I totally undestand how this is can hurt but you are a smart, wonderful person who has a whole life ahead of them! You don't need him, and you can and will get over this. I say rally up your girlfriends, hit the town! Go get some sparky new shoes and a pedicure.
Happy late birthday :) from me...a yahoo answers member person :)
i really wish you the best of luck, I've known a couple girls who've gone through similar relationships, and now are doing really well and are happy.
im sure you can do it too!
2007-02-24 02:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by free_the_frenchfries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not your boyfriend anymore, so he's not subject to give you any birthday gift or even remember it. Words of encouragement does not help, but to accept the truth is the way to go. This is only little, little thing. What if he happen to be in relationship with a new girl? Will you be able to handle the pain?
Let your ex go, girl. And you should move on.
2007-02-24 02:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Master M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on why being so depressed about someone who is not worth of you? of course he remembered ur b'day but he intentionally didnt wish you giving you a hint that he doesnt want to continue with you. accept it and move along. you deserve far better than him and i am sure you will get one day who keeps you happier than ever. give yourself some time and get going. all the best.
2007-02-24 02:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by nice_lady559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that would hurt a bit...sorry. Honestly though girl...get over him...dont mope around becuz he isnt nice enough to say happy bday. His loss....just remember that. U will b alright!
2007-02-24 02:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man,I know how you feel.Hears what I hear from everyone
Look to the future
You deserve way better
He's a piece of **** asshole
He's worthless
ur hot
ur stronger than you know
ur gonna better off in the long run.
2007-02-24 02:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋