Are there any real women left out there that are truely honest about themselves and what they want, instead of masking intentions with the words, "but I love you"?
And are there any real women who knows what the meaning of a relationship is and how to make a relationship last?
2007-02-23 17:45:55 · 14 answers · asked by Garin M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess that depends on how honest you're willing to be with yourself.
"great catches" in either gender, I'm convinced, aren't born that way...they're created over time. Usually through life experiences, heartache and the wisdom that's born from pain. Maturity also helps create honest people but that's not necessarily an age thing.
Let's say there's a great, honest and kind woman out there...who's a bit older...a heavier..and facialy speaking, perhaps not a knockout. But answer this honestly--would you (in your heart of hearts) be less inclined to approach her because of the physical strikes against her? There's a good change you wouldn't and if ladies are reading this, this pertains to you,too. The problem is societal. We just don't go up to someone and conetmplate a relationship in the off change they'll have a great personality. We want the trophies..partly for the way they look....mostly for the way they make US look.
The answer is yes, there are plenty of wonderful men and woman out there who would be ther perfect partner, who would never hide behind "I love you" because they would never take that phrase for granted or be so cavalier about saying it.
As for women who know how to make a relationship last, well, that's a two way street. Couples have to work together to make a relationship endure and grow. It takes two.
I think most people are unintentionally shallow. It just seems to happen in today's environment.
I know you get tired of the BS involved in relationships these days. I know I do. Love has become so expendable. Quickie marriages after knowing each other six hours....quickie divorces after being married two weeks. We cheat on each other, lie and break hearts and go from relationship to relationship in search of the things we'll never find. Why? Because the real answer..the real love is within. We've got to be OK with ourselves before we can be OK with anyone else. We've got to know how to make a relationship last within ourselves before we can ask that of someone else. .
Good luck!
Missy K
2007-02-23 18:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is! It sounds as if maybe you've been pretty badly hurt recently. Don't judge all us girls on the bad behaviour of a few! Honesty is an important part of any relationship, and saying 'I love you' means nothing if it's not a genuine feeling at the time. A relationship is about companionship, friendship, trust, sharing, mutual understanding and acceptance, love and honesty. You'll know when you meet the right person for you...hang in there dude!
2007-02-23 18:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is.... you just haven't come across them lately...
Women grow with time too... they learn with each relationship they're in... don't be surprised that a lot of them (men as well) end up maturing after masking mistakes and what not.... so don't lose hope...
She's out there... =) If you find her... go get her before someone else does!
Best wishes!
2007-02-23 17:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by hawaiiangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...there are lots of women like that out there!
You just have to search for them.
But i'm also taken.= )
2007-02-23 17:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to answer your question but, first I would like to know your age if you do not mind. if you want contact me at sagtamara@yahoo.com I am 36 if your curious and I do have an answer but depending on your age you may not like it
Tamara
2007-02-23 17:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tamara T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real woman wouldnt get with you with that attitude of yours. If you're that critical of women, I'd suggest you switch your sexual orientation because the least that women expect is respect buddy and i don't sense any of it from you.
2007-02-23 17:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's always a girl out there all u have 2 do is wait 4 that 1 special grl.....u'll find her.
2007-02-23 17:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry honey but you looking for a dieing bread. they are almost all extinct. if you find one hold on for dear life!!!!
2007-02-23 17:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by notes from an angry white chic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ........ but I'm taken 2
good luck though
2007-02-23 17:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there is.. maybe they are not ready for any relationship
2007-02-23 17:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Princess G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋