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2007-02-23 17:43:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

Be yourself and be honest.
Romance doesn't hurt either.
Pay attention to her and really listen to her.

2007-02-23 17:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0 0

Know her. Listen to her. Be nice, don't tease as much as you want to, but don't forget to be playful. A very important part of getting the girl is NOT being her friend. Being her friend first could lead to a disaster. I have seen the worst. I once loved this girl, but she was my best friend, and soon enough I expressed my feelings and she was gone.

But that was a long time ago.

Remember, be playful, remember what she says; be a good listener. Don't try to impress her with money; most girls don't like that, you have to find out what she loves to do and take her to do that, but find a way to make it a date. You'll have to hold her hand to get it across that you have feelings for her. This will be one of the easier parts once you actually have her hand in yours. I'll walk you through this; say your walking through the park and you see something interesting to your side, what you do from here is: you have to grab her hand and bring her to the side as if you were directing her, after that, don't let go. You don't want your hands to get sweaty so don't keep her prisoner.

DON'T go for a kiss on the first date, only if she makes the first move. If you go in for the kiss and she doesn't want any part of it, that leaves you embarrassed and the both of you in an awkward situation.

The hardest part is asking her out. You already like her, you probably think that she is the most beautiful thing in the world, and she is, remember that. Treat her with respect, don't tease her too much or you'll be her friend, tease her too little and you'll be a jerk.

Another important part is smiling, smile for no reason, she should make you smile just when you see her.

Good luck and I hope this helps.

2007-02-24 01:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by ineedanswers 3 · 0 0

Well.. I wish I knew how old you are. Being thoughtful is the best way. Listen to her when she talks. Ask questions, show you care and are interested. Put her before anyone else, including yourself. Be totally honest all the time and you will win her heart. gifts are nice, but that's not always going to win their heart. Cards help, poetry.. from the heart that is. Making her feel safe when she is with you. Best of luck buddy!

2007-02-24 01:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by answers to A 2 · 0 0

ok, girls like sweet boys, the ones that always say hi and bye and thank you ( so you should be very polite) and you should be a gentlemen and opening the doors etc ( most guys don't do that anymore). you should be funny and have thinks to talk about so that she doesn't get board but at the same time don't talk to much so let her talk to. Ask her out and make sure to be early you don't want to keep her waiting. offer her your jacket if she is cold or getting wet. Be generous and lend her things. but most of all be yourself and you must become friends first. good luck!

2007-02-24 01:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0 0

To let her have her own way.

It depends what the girl wants, what her way is, once you find out and give her that way, she'll love you and give you your heart.

My way is that I want a gentleman who is compassionate, etc. intelligent, etc. all that jazz. For example, to get my heart you would be kind to me, have a passion for life, and treat others kindly.

It's also good to have a great personality, a life of your own with passions of your own, it's just how well you mesh with her ways is how you get her heart.

But that's the truth. Every guy I've fallen in love with has fit in with my way, all were gentleman with a passion/goal they had in their life. There were other quirks that wasn't specified in my way, but I didn't mind them and I liked the difference they portrayed than other men.

But yes. Letting her have her own way will get you to her heart the quickest.

2007-02-24 01:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by natalia j 2 · 0 0

Engage her in conversations and try to be interesting. Tease her a little in a friendly way. Whatever you do, don't shower her with endless compliments and act like she is the most important thing in the world to you, because that will make you look like a wuss. You can still act like a gentleman, but don't overdo it.

Personality is more important than appearance, but don't neglect your personal hygiene because if she looks down and sees dirty finger nails then she will be turned off.

Good luck!

2007-02-24 02:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh my *** !!!!!!! How does anyone know anything bout this chick if you knew something what she likes (Other that shopping ) someone might be able to help , you want to win her heart listen to her REALLY listen shell tell you how to , and Ive found large sums of money will usally help ( bitter)

2007-02-24 01:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rick 3 · 0 0

Become her friend so she can meet you. If your talking to a friend and she passes you, say her name. Joke, find out her interests. Be as sweet as you can without being corny. Have manners. Be sensitive. Dont be afraid to accept her for her. Become very close to her, so that you call her all the time, and can go to parties together.Stick up for her. Look at her in class.
Gets me every time

2007-02-24 01:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0 0

do your best to make her laugh:
no girl in her right mind would turn down a guy who can make her smile. a few compliments are good too. not stupid ones like, o i like your...earrings..when they're the same ones she wears everyday. be a bit creative, like, o i really like that color on you!

be there for her:
like if shes sitting around, go up and talk to her. if something happens to her and she's feeling down, try to brighten her mood. knowing that there's a person there for her can really make her open up to you and begin to like you more and more.

listen to her: *important! but don't be afraid to talk too. girls like to talk about emotions...which can be kinda freaky for a guy i think. but don't be too freaked out, because if she's telling you about how she's feeling, shes trusting you. and that's a step closer.

respect her:
which is kinda like, durh. girls need respect..um..kinda self explanatory. treat her like you'd like to be treated? don't slight her or her hobbies or whatever. that will make her either mad, annoyed, or sad.
all not good.

I swear to you this is what any normal girl will find attractive in a guy. you can do it! :)

good luck!

hehe.. I forgot
try to look nice! you don't have to go all out everyday, but just general good hygiene and brushing your hair and such will take you far my friend

2007-02-24 01:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by free_the_frenchfries 4 · 0 0

Do stuff like subtley telling her that you like her, like showing her things, telling her stuff, touching her on the shoulder, asking her if she wants to hang out with you and your friends. But dont' be obsessive about her, act like you have better things to do most of the time. Be a man, be agressive....

Say "Give me a beer woman." and slap her on the ***.......*laughs*.....no dont' do that lol

Have a good ego, and think highly of yourself. This one guy I like, he acts tough and says how he's great at everything and he puts other people down, but I know he really has a low self-esteem inside......and I always like boosting his ego.

2007-02-24 01:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

depends on the girl, but for your average non-emo girl...

you have to win her heart over slowly...it takes time, alot of time, but its worth it.

treat her like she's the "one and only" and give her as much respect as possible. do anything and everything for her.

2007-02-24 01:47:17 · answer #11 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0 0

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