i married to my girl friend few months ago. it was a love marriage. we both love each other. the problem is that she is also in a government service and are unable to stay under a same roof. suggest me.....
2007-02-23 17:07:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Can she not live in the same house as you or does she have to live in another town for her job?
If it is another town because of her job then you two need to compromize and hang out together on her days off or move closer to her job or in between both of your jobs.
My brother lives away from home during the week then comes back to his home and wife on the weekend. Because of the drive time to his job. It is hard on them but it works for now.
If it is that she is not allowed to live in your house then she needs a new job because that is just stupid..
2007-02-23 17:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand why you both cant stay under the same roof, if you are legally married. If she is at a boot camp or overseas, something like that and you two cant be together and if you really love each other, then you will do whatever it takes to get thru this. I am married and only see my husband on wkends because of his job. Its part of life. It is never always the way we want things. Find a hobby, exercise, get a dog, move closer to where she is if you are able. Communicate with her as much as possible.
2007-02-23 17:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by answers to A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, is she in the military service? Did you know this before getting married? When you can, please get together, even for a few hours. You love her, she loves you, just please talk with her honestly, communication is so very imposrtant, especially in marriage. Take care.
2007-02-23 17:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep ur mind busy, exercise, part-time job,read more,visist her family more to show that ur still in love with her, learn how to play an instrument, volunteer,play more sports, and always remember why you LOVE HER!!!!!
2007-02-23 17:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by DON'T GIT LOC'D UP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is crazy my cousin and her husband were in the government services and they got to live together. good luck i have no idea how she did it.
2007-02-23 17:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't there family housing? can she find a new job? living without my husband (or boyfriend in my case) would totally suck. I'm sorry.
2007-02-23 17:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not good...You have to try to find a new house near her working place or she have to chage her job.
2007-02-23 17:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she can't live with you then why cant you live with her?
2007-02-23 17:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋