no matter how many times we break up and get back, I cant get enough of him, and he cant of me.
I mean, Its ofically love thats why I keep doing this - Ive told him already that the one thing I hate is how we keep drifting away, but we get back with the same ease.
More: When we break up, its usually cause he says its over, and
then I dont say much to him, we usually just let things sort out with the passing of time.
In between he was in town, and i did not meet him simply cause he told me before he couldnt accept my past, and i said fine.... But a few months we met, and that was that -
Initally he didnt accept my past - however he does now, and i am not sure however - how mucb i should get involved in this - cause i know I will always love him, but How do i know where he is at?
Ive thought of moving on, but everytime another guy asks me out, I keep thinking of the one I love and say no to the new one...
Plz advice, what do i do?How? Why?
whats going on here??
2007-02-23 17:06:45 · 4 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You are addicted to the drama. The getting back together is romantic and gives you a rush. You might really love him, but we all love someone we can't be with.
Remember this, the best predictor of the future is the past.
If you continue this, you two will continue the cycle, through maybe marriage, children etc. What a nightmare.
You can choose to be in a functional relationship or continue this crazy disfunction.
2007-02-23 17:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are addicted to drama. Does this type of behaviour crop up in other parts of your life? This can actually be considered an illness. Maybe you two should go to counseling if you really want to try and stay together. Sounds like you may just have some growing up to do though...good relationships aren't started this way.
2007-02-23 17:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by GranolaGurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your situation is quite similar to mine. recently he asked me to be his again but i refused his offer. maybe both of you needed to grow more. if both of you are honest with what you expect with each other then maybe the MAIN problem will surface so that both of you will work it out. If you keep up on this phase, both of you won't be growing as a partner. you may just end up in a loop and that's a difficult situation to escape. i suggest both of you deal with problems by ACTIONS not PROMISES.
2007-02-23 19:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by tiffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from him, its not love it is an emotional crutch.
2007-02-23 17:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by keliray1969 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋