as i told you i was rejected i am little fat and i have a friend who is taller around 6.8 and iam around 5.8ft and he is dark and thin while i am little fat and the girl whose name is[varsha]rejected me but now she is loving my friend .. when i knew this i am hurted as she was the only girl who was my choice and my first loveeeee....help me please as my pals are not consorting me but making asource of fun...........................
2007-02-23 17:03:54 · 20 answers · asked by Shreyas S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously, she wasn't/isn't the right one for you. There are many, MANY other girls out there, and one of them is meant for you. I wouldn't lose hope if I were you, but I think you should remain friends with the girl (if she wants to be friends) AND with the guy she is now "in love with". Some people are not worth crying over or waiting for, so don't bother feeling down or hurt.
If you really love her like you say you do, then understand the fact that she's happier with someone else.... And let her be happy that way. There's some girl out there who'll be happiest with you and you'll be happiest with her. You just have to PATIENTLY wait for her.
And be sure to know the girl for a while before wanting to marry her so that you can know whether she wants to marry you or not. She does have the right to reject or accept the proposal, you know. Let her practice it then, and don't condemn her for rejecting. I'm sure she has her reasons.
Best of luck!
2007-02-23 17:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by ♡♥ sHaNu ♥♡ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off! Are you saying you have just proposed (marriage) to a girl without even dating her? A friend of mine have gotten this kind of sudden proposal before. The guy even relocated to Canada just to be with her (stalk her). One day he just showed up with a diamond ring at her class. It was a big turn off! Before marriage, we have a thing called dating. I'm very sorry to tell you. I'm afraid it's too late for you now. This girl will forever be afraid of you. I don't think it's got to do with your weight. Next time, when you see a girl you like. Take is slow. Ask her to a movie, dinner or so.
2016-05-24 04:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about what happened. You need a HUG. All you can do is move on and find someone who feels the same way about you. You can not make someone love you back or want to be with you. Why would you want that anways? Looks has a part to play in how attracted someone is to you, but it's not everything. Don't lose hope. I hope that before you proposed you put into consideration if she felt the same about you. Don't rush into proposing if you are not for sure that she feels the same way or you will look foolish for asking. Look at this as a learning eXperience and move on. There is someone out there for everyone.
2007-02-23 17:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna have to accept the fact that people are still mean. Try to duel the loss and move on.
Life works out in weird ways and maybe it was better that she rejected you before cheating on you.
You may think that you didn't match on the outside but it could have been that you were to much of a good person to end up with someone like her.
I'm single too, so I can relate.
The way I keep on going with life it's that maybe God has someone so special for me, that it's okay to wait no matter how long.
I wish you the best, it looks like you are one of the few good guys in the planet, so never try to change who you are for nobody, ok?
2007-02-23 17:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
as u r telling u r 5.8 and the ur friend is 6.8 this so let me tell u being 5.8 is not beeing short heighted ok
now about ur problem similar was my situtation, there was a girl in my life also i was there for her always she wanted me i really cared for her i was badly in love with her she also often use to call me i felt as if she feels the same for me. Recently she was in search of a new job she use to call me and ask various queries to me regarding the same. After some days she got a job four days after she got the job i came to know the news from one of our common friend, i waited for few days and hoping that she would call me, she did but when she was in trouble, it was then i realised that she only remembered me when she was in need and in good times she had many friends but me.
so i learnt from this that if some one is not bothered about me then even i should not think of that person.
same is ur case my freind u should not feel bad because she left u but should be happy that u came to know her early now better concentrate on ur career and if u r really fat go to a gym get ur self toned and then make her feel that she had actually made a mistake by rejecting u. and in furture if ever she tries to come to u then just be alert dont ignore her just see to it that u make her realise what she has lost. now take it as a challenge and go ahead my friend but in ur furture just term her a ur friend and not girlfriend
although difficult to do but then u have to come out of this and think forward in ur life else she would feel that she had made the right decision.
2007-02-23 17:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by yudi k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound mean,but obviously she wasn't into you,and i don't think you sould still give that guy the title of "friend",because a friend wouldn't do that to you.All i can say is for you to try your hardest to move on.There's someone out there that will want ,love and respect you.
2007-02-23 17:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by DA_ONE_AND_ONLY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think first you should try and ask what her reason was of rejecting you. IF she says that you are fat, then try to slim up a little, cuz height's fine.
2007-02-23 19:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by kchl_dk007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't sound right for you unless you like shallow girls! i know it hurts right now but it will get better and you will move on. TRUST ME. i know it hurts right now, but IT WILL PASS and you will find someone who really loves you for you, and THAT'S who will make you happy. just remember that everything happens for a reason, and maybe shes not the person who is meant to be with you. theres someone else and when you find her, it will be EPIC!!!! peace homie.
2007-02-23 17:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by 360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you even get to know the girl or go out with her before proposing or did you just propose out of nowhere?
2007-02-23 17:09:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her and move on, you will find the right one for you I can promise you that. Just work on yourself and who you will become, get a good education and get to know yourself and someday a women will be lucky to have you.
2007-02-23 17:09:01 · answer #10 · answered by BIG-IRON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋