well i was dating this guy for two years and he told me (while on the phone with me) that he was still in love with this one girl. i felt so hurt that i hung up on him. two years we have been dating and he then tells me this now? was he drunk, high, or what? i love him so much what should i do with him?
2007-02-23 17:01:00 · 19 answers · asked by Kidd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel sorry for you. he is jerk and really even if he was drunk that is no excuse ...... you need to cry and get him out of your system and then move on. it will be hard but the best thing for you. you deserve better ....
2007-02-23 17:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by Shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation. Too be completely frank, if this guy after a 2 year relationship with you, can say I love another girl, obviously his whole heart wasn't into the relationship. It may hurt, and its going to hurt for a while, but only time will heel a persons heart, will never completely go away, but its an experience to learn from, and you now know to look for certain signs. And always remember, after a relationship like that, always know you deserve better. Hope this helps you.
2007-02-24 01:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by invisiblekisses2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what much to say but just because you didn't have a truly "serious" relationship with someone doesn't mean that the love that was there (at least from your side) was negated or that your love for him and for the relationship was worthless. DON'T chase him- that will make things worse! Don't feel as if you have something to prove to him. I believe if that things were meant to be and if he realizes what he has lost (if that is the case) then he will think about you and still have feelings for you. You never know... relationships are always complicated, we don't always have the answers, but take of yourself, think about what you want in YOUR own life and who knows he just see what he's missing out on!
2007-02-24 01:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he did on the phone was bad but if you feel the desire to confront him be the more mature person, make the time to do it right first make sure it is a public place less chance for a scene and then make sure you look really good. after he has explained him self tell him that all you want is for him to be honnest with you. and walk away calmly then get the best revenge get a new and better guy and make your life happy then call him back and rub it in that is what I did but dession ever he went back to her she is overweight and a ***** (his words not mine,and his mother hates her she still talks to me often)
the best revenge is a better life then him. and as for the first night a pint of your favorate icecream a piece of good chocolate and a class of wine if your over 21. Good luck
Tamara
2007-02-24 01:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tamara T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's trying to make you jealous, doesn't care about your feelings or is fed up w/your relationship and thru that out there...who knows what he's thinking. Good for you tho for hanging up on him...don't back down now. If you can get past that remark then work it out w/him but find out exactly what he meant by it. If he truly does still love her do you really want to be w/someone if they're still in love w/someone else??..where does that leave you?? Second fiddle comes to mind. Find someone who you can have their whole heart...not just parts of it. Two years is a long time to have been keeping that from you, I hope you figure things out. Good luck.
2007-02-24 01:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by aweety69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that he did that to you, but if he really didn't love you then at least you are out of the relationship now and not 10 years later and getting a divorce.
And in my opinion, to mend a broken heart: ICE CREAM!!
2007-02-24 01:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that he hurt you..What a jacka**. He should not have done that to you and wasted your time. At least now, you know the truth and move on. Do you want to be with somoene that does not love you back? Suck it up and move on. Harder to say than do I know..but to stick around another year or whatever..that's just wrong and a complete waste of your time. You are too good for that kind of crap. He's already wasted enough of your precious time so tell him to "get lost" and find someone else who is "in love with you". Guys don't lie. Don't try to change his mind...He told you the truth..it's up to you what you want to do.
2007-02-24 02:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To mend a broken heart you have to get over the person that hurt you and find some other person who will appreciate you for what you are.
2007-02-24 01:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he still has feelings for his ex. Do you want to be with someone who is thinking of someone else all the time. It's his loss. Drawn your sorrows in a whole bunch of alcohol and then get over it. You don't want to be in love with someone who loves someone else.
2007-02-24 01:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell u this but he's gone.
Even if u took him back he would do it again because u forgave him or whatever, move on, think of the bad times, not the good times.LOL
2007-02-24 01:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋