okay well there is this one girl that i like alot and we are pretty good friends. I want to tell her that i like her and maybe if she likes me back i could ask her out. Alot of the time it seems like she likes me but i could be wrong. I havent had a girlfriend in about a year and ive been extremely lonely so i really want to go out wiht her.
So im pretty much confused as to what to do. Shoudl i tell her that i like her? If i do tell her shoudl i also ask her to go out with me? i dont really know if she wants a boyfriend(she just got out of a pretty long relationship about a month ago) and i dont want to get turned down. If we do like each other shoudl we just go out on a few dates or something beforehand? uhhh im so confused right now please help!!!!
2007-02-23 16:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by djmistaspot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell her, but that's high chances you will get tuned down even though she likes you. I advice you tell her you really like her, and you really want to take care of her but if she feel she needs time to adjust then you are willing to give her time. Don't force her or give up easily.
2007-02-23 16:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by kwing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this girl, take the chance and ask her out. If she says no, don't take it personally (maybe she's not ready to start dating yet because she just ended a relationship). Dating is like a job interview--sometimes you get the job, and sometimes you don't. If you're not willing to risk the possible rejection, you'll never know. Take the chance, but you don't need to tell her that you like her right away (obviously, you do or you wouldn't ask her out), being so upfront before a first date just might scare her away. Good luck!
2007-02-23 16:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be so hard on you guys. Yes, go up to her, talk to her, let her know you'd like to go out with her. The telling her you lke her-that you can wait on until you go out with her. The fact that you ask her out pretty much indicates to her that you like her. Yes, take it slow and easy. She just got out of a long relationship. Communication is a good thing. Take care.
2007-02-23 16:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say to this is that you should let her know how u feel,before she ends up with someone else and you'll be left not knowing what could of been.If she's a good friend and she doesn't won't a relationship....she'll let u know that and if she wants to remain friends,she'll let u down gently.If she does like u in that way...it would just be smart for u to ask her out.
2007-02-23 16:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by DA_ONE_AND_ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Tell her what's in your heart. Be prepared though, and I mean this in the kindest way, for her not to return your feelings. And, if you want to maintain the friendship, weigh carefully if you do meet with rejection for anything "more" than just friendship, you will not feel awkward with her from there on in. Good luck!
2007-02-23 16:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Esther 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, do you like her like really like her or do you think you like her cause you are lonely ?? Figure this question out before you ask her out. You might end up ruining a great friendship if she don't like you back.
Make sure you really like her first though. Cause well if you ask her out outta loneliness and then decide you don't like her later...you could lose both.
2007-02-23 16:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a organic instinct for all creatures, human and in any different case, to circumvent rigidity. As human beings, we've the alternative of using our enormous brains (fairly speaking) to choose what we *ought* to do over what we *sense* like doing, as we see in great condition.
2016-10-16 09:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right time to dive in.. . she will mostly say yes.. but if she says she needs time.. then wait for a while but not too long...
2007-02-23 16:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES tell her your feelings!!
2007-02-23 16:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋