I will make this short. I used to be madly in love with this guy. He knew it too. He just pretended like it was nothing. I told him and even bought him donuts and a hat. I tried to talk to him for two years..then gave up. A year passed and I hadn't seen him then this past January he showed up at my job. We talked for awhile, then asked me to add him to my myspace so I did. So lately he's been sending me messages. I know he's flirting with me, he asked me out and he asked me for my number. I gave it to him. He didn't call. I didn't make a big deal about it. When he messaged me again he asked for it again, he said he "lost it" so i gave it to him again. He also claimed that he had been to my job several times and hadn't seen me..so he asked where I was. The next day he showed up at my work in the morning .we talked and we flirted for like an hour. Then he left...later on he sent me another message on myspace..when are we gonna go out. i wrote back..no reply..no call..
2007-02-23 16:35:06 · 16 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, it is annoying. He asked me for it twice. I guess I will try to ignore him. I don't even know why I like him I just do. So it was flattering to know he was trying to talk to me. The strangest thing is i am not desperate to get a guy. I have plenty of them. It's just this one. I would probably dump them all for him...I am such a silly girl.
2007-02-23 18:10:07 · update #1
Are you still interested in him or have you gotten over him?
This guy is defintely not insincere and is really playing hard to get... It seems to me that he is trying to use the fact that you used to love him so much to toy around with your feelings.. Do not let him get to that. It is definitely unfair to you.
Since he has sent messages to yourspace and he definitely knows your number, he will definitely contact you if he is sincere. There are so many incidents that shows that he is not sincere with you.
2007-02-23 16:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by DriftGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is playing you. Either that or he's just bored and wants to "sleep with you." Don't let him. You will be the one to get hurt not him. I understand that you were in love with him, but honestly don't you think you deserve a whole lot more than just someone who is paying attention to you and going hot then cold? I mean if he was into you he wouldn't do that. He would make definite plans and not play those games. Sure he "lost it" meaning that he didn't really care that much about you in the first place to lose it. Then instead of telling this loser to get lost himself you give him your number again. Well, I've done it too. Especially, if you are into him and he's hot..It's hard to resist the temptation of giving him another chance. This guy that I was with made every eXcuse in the book of why he lost my number, didn't call when he was supposed to and cancel plans on me. I should of not put up with that behavior and instead ended up getting hurt and wondering why? LOL I was a fool....I did it to myself. The guy is a loser....kick him to the curb and stop wasting your precious time with him. Go find a guy who is "into you" and treats you right.
2007-02-23 18:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just one of those people who LOVES attention so he's playing with your head and hopefully he hasn't gotten to your heart yet but hell he wouldn't care if he did. He probably missed all the attention you used to give him so he came looking for you. Probably a self esteem issue with him. He needs to know that someone out there needs and wants him to make himself feel better. You can tell he wants to control you because he asked you where you were because he was looking for you when he needed you. What's it any of his business where you were? He's not your man. Just forget about him sounds like a jerk who is just messing with your head. No one deserves that.
2007-02-23 16:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if sumone specially frnds doesnt mails u or forget to call u it doesnt mean that he is playing wid u. u give him sum chance, n u reveal him his mistake is that whether he can correct himself, if he continues in the same way then only u come to a decision. Now when h hav *** to u, take him as ur frnd n not as ur beloved unless he tells u dat he loves u.
2007-02-23 16:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweetu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought you said you were gonna make it short?
anyway kill the myspace. if he cant talk to you the right way (i.e on the phone or in person) let him walk. remember, the way he behaves in the beginning sets the tone for the whole relationship. and this one has the potential for alot of head game playing. find someone else, and hurry...
2007-02-23 16:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by spiritualcipher 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A fool would be cheated by even a kid. That guy may have a lot of girls like you. Check it out first, after then we can discuss about his attitude towards you.
2007-02-23 16:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Viku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this relationship is going nowhere, so stop wasting time with it. You've given him plenty of time. He doesn't care and he's not going to care.
2007-02-23 18:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP, SORRY BUT IT IS TRUE.
IT SOUNDS LIKE HE USED AND HURT YOU A YEAR AGO SO DON'T GET STARTED WITH HIM AGAIN. YOU ARE PROBABLY STRONG SO YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT AND FIND A BETTER GUY.
2007-02-23 16:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Uble B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. either he is too busy or is not ready for the elationship.. anyways I wud recommend that you muv on.
2007-02-23 16:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely
2007-02-23 16:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Andres A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋