Me and my bf have been dating a few years and live together. Lately I've been getting a wandering eye. I don't cheat, but I wonder about other people sometimes. I know I have a good thing going with the guy im with and a lot of our friends are mutual. I don't think a clean break is possible. Should I break it off or just forget about it and keep the good thing.
2007-02-23 16:26:26 · 19 answers · asked by O.K. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dumb question but has to be asked
why would you want to break up a good thing?
everybody's eyes wonder, and think what would he / she be like
just like when the 2 of you started dating you felt all of the butterflies in your stomach
relationships can last forever too many break up looking for the short term butterflies
2007-02-23 16:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have a wandering eye, doesnt mean that you should break off a relationship with a guy! It is normal to have a wandering eye when your not with your boyfriend, dont be ashamed of it, just dont let it get any farther than that!
dont get rid of something good over something so silly.
2007-02-24 00:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by maeve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, without providing much detail, it's hard to tell. Should you, should you not? I think deep down you know what you want. Do you guys have other problems? Or are you just getting "bored?" If so, try to spice it up a bit. Or try the dinstance test. Go away for a week and see what happens... I, for one, am for a good thing if the good thing is going well. Why stir the pot if it's cooking nicely... Best of luck to you!
2007-02-24 00:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Livinka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about "clean breaks" think about what you want and who you are. Do not settle. Do not waste his time if you aren't serious. Search your feelings and reason. Only you can decide. If I had thought harder I might not be divorced. I might not have been married. I'm glad I was married. Just think. Think hard. Don't tell him you're thinking or he will change his behavior and you won't have a constant to go by (I'm a scientist). Don't wait too long to decide. It's not fair to either of you. Good luck. Love stinks.
2007-02-24 00:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mountain Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's eyes wander sometimes as long as you're completely faithful,stay with him.Don't throw away a good thing for an uncertainty.
2007-02-24 00:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its common to get a wondering eye at that stage in the relationship. You've fallen into routine and you're craving something new. Try something to spice up your relationship?
2007-02-24 00:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called the 7 year itch. It happens to a lot of people. If you really love him, stay with him and remain faithful. If you don't love him, break it of.
2007-02-24 00:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by RiverGirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you start asking yourself this question it meant it might not be as good things as you thought. you are going through a stage every couple will go through, if you can live through it then you 2 will be happily ever after(maybe). If not, either one of you will be sad.
2007-02-24 00:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by kwing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break it off... but if you are falling out of love, maybe that is the best answer then.
2007-02-24 00:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by piano_man_969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him break up with you to clear your concious. start with demanding him to marry you. use the old "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" line . it should be all down hill from there.
2007-02-24 00:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by spiritualcipher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋