i just got out a of serious relationship... and every man ive met since then its a total freak??? is there no normal men left or do i just attract weirdo's....
2007-02-23 16:24:06 · 15 answers · asked by juli_jugz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cause men are complicated
2007-02-23 16:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's normal men out there but I think the freaks out number them about a million to one. Just relax and quit looking so hard. You don't have to be in a relationship to be complete, or happy. Take some time and make sure you are over the serious relationship first. Then figure what you are looking for in a relationship and where you think you can find guys that can meet your qualifications. Finally figure out where you are going that you keep attracting the freaks and then quit going there. Good luck.
2007-02-23 16:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I answer with some questions of my own?
Where are you looking?
Do you think the username juli_jugz might be attracting the wrong kind of guys?
What's your definition of normal?
Seriously, step 1... stop looking. Make sure you are enjoying the rest of your life. When the time is right, love will find you.
2007-02-23 16:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by tvjames 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not that I am advocating this, but have you heard about "The Secret" advertised on Oprah?
You are the one bringing these men into your life...maybe all these men aren't the problem...maybe it is you.
I don't want this to come off sounding bitchy or mean, but take a look at yourself and your life and see what's up there first before you go blaming the "freaks".
2007-02-23 16:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Your probably just a whore! Men are using you as target practice. My advise is don't be so easy. Wait at least one date before you jump in the sack together.
2007-02-23 16:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by normal? Do you mean by someone that fits your standard? Maybe you just have to lower your expectations and some of your standard. Or maybe your heart is really not yet ready.
2007-02-23 16:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by roma_balbin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could be both, try hanging out in different places and doing different activities where you might meet a man.
2007-02-23 16:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe its the latter. Anyway, you just got out of a relationship, so why don't you give yourself a break?
2007-02-23 18:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're looking for love in all the wrong places.
how did you meet your previous boyfriends? maybe the place where you found them are not the place that you should seek for companionship. change your scene. maybe that will change the picture.
2007-02-23 16:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by interlude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably both today's society there aren't many good men out there but you could have a weird taste in men
2007-02-23 16:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Micheala 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋