An example would be the whole MySpace Phenomenon. . .She absolutely has to know my pass word at all times. So one day I figured I would ask her for hers and she had a fit and compared me to her Ex and his Psychotic Ramblings. I have absolutely no interest in her password or her My Space, I barely go on mine but the curiosity still remains as to why the double standard?
2007-02-23 16:20:36 · 13 answers · asked by Rayman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am female. You are getting my back up as well. She has things on there she does not want you to see. She could be up to something questionable, and feeling guilt, that is why she is so assertive of finding out what you are doing. She threw the ex in there because she knows that bringing him up, would make you back off. Heaven forbid you be like the ex and thats why they broke up. I think you need to do more investigating. She is pulling a hose job and perhaps her ex found out when they were dating, called her on it, and she didn't like that. I would be cautious.
2007-02-23 16:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like she trusts you. If I were you I would talk to her about this. Let her know that you have nothing to hide and that you are more than willing to share your password, but that the double standard is unfair. Give and take right? Give her yours and she should give you hers. She needs to grow up and deal with her trust issues. Otherwise, maybe she shouldn't be in a relationship.
2007-02-23 16:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must admit, I've only met guys like that, I haven't yet a female, but obvously they exist. She seems to be pretty insecure with her self and feels this way she knows for a fact who you're talking with and if you're getting a little more then chummy with her, but she feels you shouldn't be worried about that.
So she's probably setting the double standard because shes so insecure with her self and her ability to keep you
2007-02-23 16:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any female that uses the double standard should be avoided at all costs. It only gets worse
2007-02-23 16:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Gman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's a controlling b i t c h who has to dominate you, who demands that you allow her to dominate you to prove your love.
And I bet that this isn't the only way she dominates you. Does she hit redial on your phone? Does she check your recent calls on your cell phone? Read your email?
Dump her and find a girl who trusts you. Being with one who doesn't trust you will bring nothing but hell.
2007-02-23 16:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Texasippi Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she is insecure about something maybe she has been cheated on by all her previous boyfriends.Or maybe she has something to hide?I dont now the situation.
2007-02-23 16:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run before she starts locking you up!
2007-02-23 16:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like knowing everything they are jealous of everything but when the guy does it the girl just doesn't like it
2007-02-23 16:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by edwinerzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't trust you.Could be a problem!!!
2007-02-23 16:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by skippersbrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a woman, its not fair, it may not feel like its right but the simple truth is thats the way it is.
-NmD!
2007-02-23 16:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋