1st chance- There is this girl that i love very deeply. The first time when we were going out, it was good and we had a fun time, but then one day her aunt saw us making out and then told her mom which got us broken up. 2nd chance- She called back about 3 months later saying that she really missed talking to me. We talked and had a good time with it. She asked me out again and i gave her another chance. but the thing was during the first time we were going out and this time, i was living in arlington while she was living in dallas. so that means that we only got to see eachother a few times. Then one day she cheated on me! I broke up with her and didnt call again. THE UPCOMING 3rd CHANCE- I moved to dallas at the begging of 2007 and now we go to the same school. We decided to talk again cause i do miss her. We have been talking for about 1 week already and she is getting on to me again. I still love her but i have a feeling she will cheat on me again.
PLEASE HELP.
she still loves me
2007-02-23 16:20:02 · 11 answers · asked by Jul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You both are so young, why not date a few times and take it from there. It doesn't have to be so serious at your age, try being friends and having some fun. You are going into this with doubts so if she proves them unfounded then all the better. If she lets you down again then you'll know it wasn't meant to be. And who's to say you aren't the one who will meet someone else.
2007-02-23 16:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joker I do apologize that you had to go through that and I do hope and pray that it's something that you will not have to endure again. Joker I have had past relationships where I was cheated on and honestly the best advice that I can give you is to leave her be. Honey, you have done your absolute best to make the relationship work and although you were faithful to her and held up your end of the bargain, she on the other hand did not. Honey, she may tell you that she still loves you but I seriously doubt it, otherwise she had stayed faithful. There is a saying that once a cheater, always a cheater. That my dear has been proven to be true to me many times. I seriously urge that you cut off the relationship as well as friendship with this girl all together cause you deserve so much better than that and it's evident that she does not love you, only using and abusing you. Please find someone else!
2007-02-23 17:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by chris a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater! but maybe she wont since you r at the same school now... good luck and if you still have feelings for her after so long and you two are still talking and want to try things out then hey why not? you two were far away and lived in different towns so that is a hard situation> considering u were 100% faithful, i would be hurt and let go though but just FOLLOW YOUR HEART
2007-02-23 16:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jdez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. Not for me to answer, but for you to follow my instructions, that even I couldn't follow.
Shut down your brain, and let your heart do the thinking. Do you really love her? Does all of your heart love her?
That's kinda hard, shutting down your brain and all. So, just be her friend, find out what you can about her.
Let your heart do the thinking, but remember, there is someone out there, and you need to give her a chance, I honestly dont' think this girl's the one, but don't break up a good relation ship because of this last paragraph.
2007-02-23 16:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let her go, you are young and there will plenty of time to find love. Maybe you guys can just be friends and talk and hang out but does not seem to be a good relationship, you will always remember when she cheated before. Good luck to you.
2007-02-23 16:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when you were going outthe second time she cheated on you..So you have your answer about if she loves you.. thats a big NO...Why would you go back to someone who cehated and broke your heart. You wouldn't ..Move on man...you'll get a new GF soon and she will realize what she lost.
2007-02-23 16:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave her alone because she has already cheated on you. But if it's something that you want to do go slow and remember that she did cheat on you and if she does it again you will look really crazy.
2007-02-23 16:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i position self assurance in second possibilities yet no longer 0.33. Neither does my female friend because i'm on my 2d danger at the same time with her and she stated she will be able to no longer supply me a 0.33 if I ****** up back. i might want to agree at the same time with her although, third danger is merely too a lot. Plus in the experience that they do it once, theylle do it back.
2016-10-17 08:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta let some things go.. you gave her chances and on one she cheated on u,, and its gonna be hard but some people dont deserve more chances then wat they deserve..
but if u wanna give her another chance go ahead and do it and see how it works out but think about it enough that u have ur own answers.
2007-02-23 16:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Asherz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah move on already
2007-02-23 16:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋