theres this girl that ive known for years and we've been like buddies ever since. i mean shes like one of the guys . i would rather hang out with her instead of the boys. and to be honest i dont know what to do im scared stiff. what should i do? im begging for help
2007-02-23 16:09:11 · 7 answers · asked by JFiya24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is 1 thing i forgot to add. she is already going out with someone and hes getting jealous because she hangs out with me more than him
2007-02-23 16:25:17 · update #1
If you really lke her then go for it,but also keep in mind that if you decide to date her things could be different
2007-02-23 16:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out whether she feel the same way as you, if she is not, I would suggest you 2 stick as a friend for now, or else it could get ugly. Beside, may be she might fall in love with you later stage of you friendship. you never know!
2007-02-24 00:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by kwing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ages would be nice here.... This is the most FAQed question eva!
I think, but am not sure if, I'm in the same situation.
I'm in my last sememster of middle school, here's my advice:
Try to restablish the friend ship where you could talk easily,
Hang out with her often. Her and her friends and you and your friends.
Don't let your friendship fall with your guy friends.
Try to learn not to be scared.
When you're doing this, think of me, doing the same thing......
Life is like lemons sometimes......
2007-02-24 00:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when you're really good friends with someone of the opposite gender, it takes a while to recognize your feelings for them. sure, a relationship can bloom, but what would happen if you guys broke up? how would that affect your friendship? just remember that you never know when a relationship will end, but friends...you can keep them forever.
2007-02-24 00:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by sakuraxkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a good friend, talk with her.
If it were any subject other than this, you'd know how to talk with her about it, right? Well, talk with her about this the same way.
2007-02-24 00:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tink of another girl u like and tink about how badly it ruined u all if u all broke up dnt give up somting so good
2007-02-24 00:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by edwinerzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kinda silly. If you've fallen in love (as you claim you have) with this girl buddy of yours... you've fallen in love.
2007-02-24 00:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋