i really liked this girl for a couple of monthes. shes really nice, shes shy, and shes beautiful... about 3 months ago, she found out i liked her, and she said she wanted to be just freinds. to my surprise she went out with some guy that was into drugs and drinking (even though she wasn't like that) he cheated on her, and they broke up so i started to like her again, and we were spending more time together and she wasn't that shy anymore. The day before valentine's day, a friend told her about me liking her and she gave me the just friends thing again. i felt so bad, she wanted to know why i liked her, so i gave a friend of hers a full page note, and it was really heartfelt. i put everything i felt about her down on that letter, it said some stuff like "she has the perfect personality a person could ever have" and "besides personality, she is beautiful, but that doesn't matter because the inside is what i love". some other girls read it and the loved it. (more in next details)
2007-02-23 16:07:51 · 12 answers · asked by piano_man_969 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the girls said that any girl would be stupid not to love me after that... and they said that was the sweetest thing a guy could do. anyways, the girl i like got the note, and she said it was fake, and she didn't like it and she thought it was bad. but the truth is, it wasn't fake whatsoever it was all true. any advice from anyone? i'd realy appreciate it. thanks...
2007-02-23 16:10:00 · update #1
some friends at school have been telling me that she only wanted a couple of compliments.
2007-02-23 16:18:06 · update #2
Honestly, your question made my heart skip a beat...too bad I'm married!
She doesn't sound that perfect to me.
She is being rude and very inconsiderate of your feelings. You really need to try to move on because she doesn't seem interested in you.
Trust me, years down the road she is going to kick herself for being such an idiot. You will find someone to love who loves you back and it will be amazing. Try not to dwell on someone who doesn't love you back. You sound like an amazing guy that is going to make some lucky girl very happy. Don't lose this emotional romantic side of yours. She is just not the right one to share it with.
Wishing you all the best.
2007-02-23 16:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by michellecdnd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she thinks it a fake and not willing to accept all the heartfelt compliments you're giving her she must not be worth it. If that was what you believe and she's not willing to accept it then just move on and realize she's not worth your time.
2007-02-23 16:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude time to move on. you deserve more than a girl who cant see how you feel about her. try finding someone who appreciates you and doesnt screw with your feelings and give you false hope. for serious, forget her. harder said than done, i know, but its the best possible choice you have.
good luck
2007-02-23 16:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a teenager, why are you giving the note to her friends and not her???? Don't go through friends...be direct...it shows confidence, if nothing else. Good luck!
2007-02-23 16:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm she isnt worth it move on dude ull find someone worth your time i feel bad but yeah move on girls have broken my heart too about 2 of them wait 3
2007-02-23 16:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she's in disbelief that someone could be so sweet(any maybe she's starting to like you but isn't sure how to express that?) or she dislikes it but doesn't know how to tell you to move on. i hope things work out for you!
2007-02-23 16:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-02-23 16:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE JUST DOESN"T LIKE YOU THAT WAY.
Nothing you write or say is going to change her mind.
YOU ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE. SHE DOESN"T WANT TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND. SHE HAS TOLD YOU MORE THAN ONCE. ACCEPT IT!
Find someone else.
2007-02-23 16:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say get over it because if all that is true it wasn't really ment to be
theres other fish in the sea you know
2007-02-23 16:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by JFiya24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find someone who understands and appreciates you. It sounds like this girl doesn't.
2007-02-23 16:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by The Goddess of Demons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋