Ok so dudes *guys* walk up to me *i know them, friends* come up and starts flirting with me. Even though they are really older then me. *note: im 12* so like a month or two, there was a guy who is like 17ish and hes my brothers friend and is taken. Which im totally fine but he started flirting with me. He kept making me laugh and everything and commenting me. Then there is a 15ish 16ish boy who flirted with me on New Years. He kept wanting to dance with me or something. Idk if it was him being drunk or what. But he was always wanting to dance or something and me and his sister are like best friends. So my question is why do guys always look for someone when they are taken? *also: i look like 14-16 for my age as people say*. and why? thanks for answering...
2007-02-23 16:04:40 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also when I go near boys, that i don't know much or are related to me or are friends or something like that they all get so nervous talking around me. I'm not sure if they are nervous saying something wrong or something. Once my brother and my dad's friends son and his sons friends were outside eating pizza. and i was starving so i went outside to get some pizza and before i came it was so loud. then after it was so quiet not talking about a thing. *note: i was the only girl there* so i don't know if it was because i was young or something. and my brother's friends were juniors then. but they kinda still act like that now even though they are like seniors and have a girl friend. Wellz help please! and thanks for answering!
2007-02-23 16:12:10 · update #1
halloween i wasn't trying to look so sluty/whoreish so i tried dressing as a gothic fairy and next thing i know it a guy in a car beeps his horn and wants me to go to him *i live in a city* so i didn't know him. and i ran to a random house and trick or treated and hid at the house while the car passed. does it mean that i look old or is it just how i dress or something?
2007-02-23 16:15:00 · update #2
hahahaha lol 3rd addition... lol. wellz i hang out with them because my parents know their parents... got any more questions and i'll make the thing way bigger lol.
2007-02-23 16:32:17 · update #3
It's just what happens
2007-02-23 16:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only idiots look for someone else when they are taken, your an easy target being younger than them. By this I mean your in a different grade, maybe even a different school and by looking older they are attracted to you and they think you would be a good choice as their g/f probably wouldn't find out about you. Best to avoid these types of jerks.
-NmD!
2007-02-24 00:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you are 12... 12!!!! You don´t need to hang out with 17ish guys.
- 17ish guys don´t commit to nothing but a chance to "get lucky"
- 17ish guys are driven only by their hormones, "taken" or not
- It is ok if you look older than your age, but you should act and take care as your own age... You are not even a teenager!!!!
2007-02-24 00:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by melissa986 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,that is a question i dont even think a guy could answer, but i do knwo this, some guys are only in the relationship for the kissing and other benefits and the others are really in for commitment, and those who aren't for commitment jsut go for any girl who is hot wether they are taken or not. :)
2007-02-24 00:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by BeachHottie846 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy starts dating a girl their confidence usually goes up. They feel like they can do anything so, they flirt and show off how good they feel.
P.S....If you're 12 you should in no way be drinking. I'm 18 and i've never had a drink in my life, trust me. Times are more fun when you're sober honey
2007-02-24 00:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see...Okay.. Maybe the older guys #1 think you are older #2 are just not the kinda people you should surround yourself with, especially if they are taken..
Hope I could help.
XoXO
Sara Nicole
2007-02-24 00:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah Nicole O'Byrne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well perhapes you are attractive to them just do not get involved yet you are to young for having a bf
2007-02-24 00:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do this because for some reason we need to remind ourselves that we can still attract hot girls.
2007-02-24 00:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by Superman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋