I have been seeing this guy since about January 1st.. we met on yahoo personals... anyways.. we have decided to date, " I didn't know there was a difference between dating/seeing, apparently if you are seeing someone, they are able to see other people? idunno, what he said" We have agreed to stay excusive, which means no other partners.. I prefer that, and I have voiced my opinion about the issue.. Anyways.. I know that he has an ad on every personals site there is/some with his d**k picture, other pictures of himself.. all you have to do is type in the area he lives in, even without subscribing, and his name/pic pops up.. he said he did it to reach a larger group of people, because not everyone uses 1 site... I really wish he would delete every single one of them while we are dating, is this wrong of me? should I just trust what he is saying is true? I don't want to make him mad, afterall I went to these sites (without subscribing) and looked up his name/area. thanks for any help!
2007-02-23 16:04:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I took my (1) ad off of yahoo right after we started seeing eachother.
2007-02-23 16:04:19 · update #1
I have so many questions... like about where the relationship is going, but don't want to scare him away, we haven't been together long, and it has been going great..
2007-02-23 16:04:39 · update #2
I'm in college, and he works from home/travels a bit for his job.. we see eachother on the weekends/during the week some.... I want to trust him so much, but dont want to end up with a broken heart, like what happened in a previous relationship... Thanks to everyone who gives advice!
2007-02-23 16:04:51 · update #3
You said you hadn't been together long, maybe he just wants to wait and see if it is truly going to work out before he deletes his profiles off these sites,,,just wait and see and give him a chance and see what happens,,,
2007-02-23 16:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is dating you, then he is no longer single and looking, correct? Then he should take his picture off the singles sites. If things don't work out, he can always post them again. He shouldn't still be "looking" when he's dating you. Talk to him about it, tell him that you don't want other women to be looking him up while you and him are trying to build a relationship. It's a fair request.
2007-02-23 16:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by robotchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only thing that I can say is for you to follow wht your heart really desire for you to do that close your eyes and thi8nk of him for a couple of minute and then if he appear in your mind with a good looking one then you have made the right descision. Also you have see all the hidden things and secrets about him before you give him your trust. H e should be worthy of that or trust worthy.
2007-02-23 16:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas Odin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking him why he still has ads on these sites? Communicate with him and tell him that it kinda bothers you that he still has them, tell him that it makes you feel as if he doesn't expect the relationship to work out and is still seeking someone else.
I know if I were you I would feel kinda leery about the situation and not really trust him. Which if you really want the relationship to work you must have trust.
Good Luck talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. If he gets mad about something as petty as this then he really isn't worth being with. He should take your feelings into consideration also if he really wants this to work out.
2007-02-23 16:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you specify whether or not you were looking for a long term relationship? You need to tell him so if that is what you want. He may want to sample a lot of dishes before he decides, if ever, to only be with one person. Honestly confront him about this so you can move on or he decides to be with you. Frankly, a couple of months may be too soon to be going steady.
2007-02-23 16:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he still has his pick up of his penis and its all over the net then that means he doesn't want to be tied down to one person. If he didn't delete them then he is still looking for someone else..I'm sorry to tell you this cause it seems like you care for him about alot. But as long as he still has his ad's up he's single and he wants you on the side. You know incase he can't find someone else.
2007-02-23 16:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he should take down some of the pics that are...revealing cuz he is dating u and its not wrong of u to ask him that...i would ask the same thing if i were dating him.
if u or any of ur friends need advice on dating or just need someone to talk to my e-mail address is Darklife_of_love@yahoo.com
2007-02-24 04:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has nude pictures on the web and you wonder if it will work? What planet do you live on? Actions speak louder than words. His actions are low down.
2007-02-23 16:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away now....anyone who puts pictures like that on the internet is sick and wrong and needs to be stayed away from! run run run! ; )
2007-02-23 16:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by beautyful2god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you already know the answer to your question. But, just in case....NO! Do not trust him.
2007-02-23 16:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋