ive changed a lot this year...im not sure if it was for the better though...im in my 3rd year of highschool and im starting to realize almost everyone is fake and just not being themselves...for the first couple of years i would dress up and try to fit in and i could never go anywhere looking like crap or not doing what was considered cool. so this year im pretty mcuh just like whatever and i almost feel like i can see the truth in everyone...like for making friends...i noly have like 3 friends just cauz i know that their not being fake and dont even bother with anyone else..and for guys i dont want a relationship at all cauz it seems like if i do dress up and try they just want sex.. i feel really stupid cauz all i care about are things like working hard cauz i want to be successful in life. i must sound confusing so just to break it down..i feel like im too smart to have fun anymore cauz i already know how things will end up if i get involved with these ppl...am i weird??
2007-02-23 15:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not weird. You have a good head on your shoulders but your only in HS. Your only young once enjoy it while you can.
2007-02-23 16:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not weird. You are just growing up. Sounds like you have made some good adjustments. At this time in your life it is good to be focused. These are the years that set the path for the rest of your life, so choose wisely. And girls usually mature sooner than guys, and most of them are trying to get in your pants, so again, take it slow.
I would suggest that maybe you and your real friends find some thing to do together that is fun, to break the monotony. You know the adage... all work and no play...
besides, you are far more likely for discover someone nice, who is not phony, doing things you like. Plus, the happier you are, the more attractive you are.
So, use your head, there is plenty of time for romance. Build as few good friendships instead.
2007-02-23 16:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very smart and sensible person. Its the individuals that go places in life. People who are too busy trying to be liked by everyone else miss the important things in life. Better to have 3 close friends you can trust than to have 50 friends who arent so close. Keep working hard, life begins when school finishes!
2007-02-23 16:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Christy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no defenitely your not honey you are just trying to be sure with your future and for all the ends that might have bestowed upon you it is not the friendhsip that will last but the loyalty of every person that you will be encountering in the matter of time but it is also bad in your part for you to think everybody is fake maybe not all because you have seen some of the individuals their treated you but they are actually hypocrites but i do really believe that they are also a lot of the people their are good and genuine. In some attitudes of yours we are just the same like having sureness about our own ends and by knowing what will be the next step on what we have done it is good because we really think not only think but critical thinking ok did you get that or did you get the point hmm ok goog bye...
2007-02-23 16:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas Odin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a smart girl who knows what she wants and who she is. That's great. You are ahead of alot of people your age I think.
Just try to accept people for who they are and be yourself. I've always thought that a couple of really good friends is much better than a whole bunch of aquaintances. You have a goal so work towards that and don't lose sight of it. You can still have fun though. Don't ever think you are too old or too sophisticated or too smart to laugh and have fun. Real life is hard enough, you have to find time to play sometimes. Good Luck to you.
2007-02-23 16:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm impressed that you outgrew peer pressure in the midst of it. Some people never outgrow it. Don't stop caring about others though they can't fake everything and in order to grow up you have to act that too. I know it sounds confusing but don't stop trying to look and be your best....... always be your best.Just notice your new view and ambition and grow with it.
2007-02-23 16:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naa you are fine. Unlike other people you actually know what you want and you are being yourself. I think that is amazing. You are not weird you are just determined so doesnt matter what people say.
take care
2007-02-23 16:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By saying that your to smart to get together with people makes you so much less then what you think you are.
They say fools rush in but, have you seen an unhappy fool?
2007-02-23 16:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are becoming more mature and reasonable. Nothing at all wrong with that.
2007-02-23 15:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋