Hey, okay. I love this guy, he's 19 and i'm 17. we've been going out for 2 1/2 years. we love each other very very much, and i think i'm ready to do it with him. i'm a virgin, but he's not, and that sorta bothers me. I mean, i'd like for us to loose our virginity together, you know? have you ever had sex with a non virgin? please help me!!!
2007-02-23 14:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know your emotions are strong for this guy right now, but take it sloww... very slow. If he loves you, he will make a sacrifice and wait for.. or you may just find out that you do not love this guy, and has saved yourself alot of grief in the long run. Once you do that with a guy, as a woman, you leave some form of emotional attachment behind-- especially you, you are young, naive and it will be your first experience. Take your time baby, take your time.
2007-02-23 15:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by choc_sweety 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2.5 years and you havent had sex?wild haha, yeah I was 17 when I lost my virginity to my bf..(I am 19 now)..he was 22, and I was a hardcore virgin.
If you really love him, and want to, talk to him about it, and make sure that you go on birth control pills first!!!
He cant help the fact he has slept with other people in the past, Im sure if he could turn back time he would lose it to you...I know you want to lose it to a virgin,but that cant always happen....if its somthing you really feel you need to have, than break up and find a virgin...
2007-02-23 15:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity to my fiancee. I am now 25, hes 28 (lost it at 23 he was 26). He had been with other girls but that just ment he knew how to do it and could teach me. If you love him...then it shouldn't matter too much. Be safe though, unless you are prepared for parenthood.
2007-02-23 15:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a virgin but I believe that its not the right time till both are ready to do it
2007-02-23 14:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by sara a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres nothing you can do about it. its not like you can change the past. I think you should just go for it and get over this non virgin thing. just remember that hes with you and that he loves and really cares about you
2007-02-23 15:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by filipino_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.
Wait until you are 18.
you've waited 2 1/2 yrs.
Don't give yourself away.
WAIT!
www.talksexwithsue.com
2007-02-23 14:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wudn't suggest doing it. id wait. even if u love him. u shud wait until ur in ur 20s bcuz there is less of a chance of an STD. especially since he has had sex b4.
2007-02-23 14:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta think about it carefully.
your too young to do it with him.
are you ready for the possibility of pregnancy.
can you forsee what will happen to your life with a single mistake.
girl, you better focus on your studies.
2007-02-23 15:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dnt u ask him to get tested i mean it may make u feel better to kno all of that! and if ur ready it will happen with out any thought
2007-02-23 15:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your too friggon young .wait till you get married or loose your virginity together
2007-02-23 14:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋