I'm a nice guy, I always treat girls with respect, I'm funny, pretty handsome, smart, always think of them before myself, I don't come on to strong but at the same time I don't stray away, talk to them, listen, you now basically everything. i play school sports,
But i've been rejected, used, left in the middle of a date for the ex, stood up, one girl even asked me out didn't show up and then laughed at me, i've been played, acted like they like me, say they didn't like me then get mad when i try to move on
What am i doing wrong? It's Killing me..... Can you give me some tips or something?
2007-02-23 14:54:27 · 4 answers · asked by Theoretically Speaking 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay calm. Your best chance of communicating a strong, confident demeanor includes staying calm.
As for their getting mad -- shrug it off. When you're moving on, you're the one with the power.
Basically, stay sane by not caring very much. And that attitude happens to be attractive to a lot of women. Say what you think, not what you think they want to hear (up to a point of course). Etc.
Just be confident and comfortable with yourself, and a considerable number of women will eventually fall in line with that.
2007-02-23 16:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being too nice, and girls use that good quality of yours against you. Try to be "hard to get", act more confident, fake it til you make it. Girls like confident guys cuz if a person that sure of themselves shows interest in us, we think it's cool. BUT a really nice, shy guy with no confidence seems like he'll date, or go for any girl that shows a little bit of interest in him. But don't change too much, you seem fine, maybe it's the stupid girls with the problem and not you:)
2007-02-23 23:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man. U sound like a girl!! be firm and have self confidence, many girls don't like sensitive, nice guys. Personally i like nice guys but they gotta ve a personality :)
2007-02-23 23:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepieaww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question twice. There are no tips for you.
2007-02-24 16:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by jp_457 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋