Should I feel guilty?

Question

Ok I kinda feel guilty now. I got this boy at my school to spread this rumor about this girl. The reasone was because:1. She acts like my friend but when other people are around she doesn't talk to me. 2. She tried to steal 3 of my friends boyfriends. 3. She is 100% Italian and acts black and thinks she can only go out with black guys. 4. She is trying to turn my friends against me. The rumor I spreaded wasn't that bad. On a 1-10 scale I guess I'd say it was a 6 or 7. It was kinda a rumor that you wouldn't believe I guess. I'm afraid someone will start a rumor about me now. But noone knows who started it! But should I feel guilty??? Everyone else was in on it too.

Answer 1

Although this young lady does not seem very nice, what you did was wrong. Telling lies about someone will only get you a reputation for being a back stabber and untrustworthy. And, yes, someone could start a rumor about you and you will not like it. It is easy to react when someone does something you don't like, but if you think about what you are going to do, you can come up with something better.

Answer 2

I guess not, if she's done worser things to you than what you spread than probably not.
Don't get too carried away though, spreading rumors is not a good thing and karma can come back at anytime for it's revenge.
Learn from your mistakes and instead resolve any problems you have by talking, it may not seem like the best idea but it's the mature way to handle situations.

Answer 3

How old are you 10? You should be ashamed of yourself making lies about other people and then coming on here trying to get some pity. All you want is someone to tell you that you did the right thing so you will feel better about yourself, well you wont get that from me. Be a adult and tell her that you started it and that you are sorry for what you did and explain why you did it.