i'm always getting in trouble 4 things i don't even do. n my sister acts like she cn do w/e she wants. shes always yeling at me. n mymom is always making me clean the house n do my h.w, n clean my room. n i cn never go nyware!!! my sister acts up even more than me n she gets away with it. its like i'm the ugly step sister. like cinderella. xepti don't have a boyfriend r ny thing. lolz n the only place i'm really ever happy is at school when i'm with my friends. but i have enemies there its just 2 much stress i'm probly gonna have gray hair by the x im 20!!! wut shud i do? any suggestions?
2007-02-23 14:20:58 · 6 answers · asked by Caitlin J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You say you're happy at school. But doing what? If you're studying, why is your spelling and sentence construction so dreadful? You are very young and you need to shape up your education and do the things at home that your mother expects of you. Don't be concerned about your sister; be concerned about bettering yourself. You will have to learn to deal with stress because lives are always stressful, no matter what your age or circumstance. This is just training for the real thing.
2007-02-23 14:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ranting and raving and making very little sense. Perhaps this is the way you attempt to communicate with your family. Try calming down and being realistic. Write down everything that happens in a 3 day period. This includes what you do and say and what others do and say. Be really honest. This is only for you to look at and prove to yourself that the things you think are happening really are. You might find that your life really isn't so terrible and your mother is fair and maybe your sister feels the same way you do.
2007-02-23 15:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way where you are right now. I have this sister also who does everything she wants. My mom can't control her so I end up being the good child in the family to fill up my sisters' missing pieces. And outside home I had a lot of pressure like having good grades , feeling left out .. that was me almost 5 years ago... Right now I am already away from my family working in the city. I send them money to help them out as well. Its not always easy but I am thankful that because of my experiences in the past it had made me a stronger person . Be strong girl . In time all of this will pay off.Don't feel so stresseed out as well. Your emotions can haunt you and you might end up losing your mind. Learn to unwind as well .
2007-02-23 15:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off I think you need to sit down with your mother alone and have a talk with her and let her know how you feel, maybe she just don't realize what shes doing or how its affecting you, then she might understand whats been going on and start changing things around, you could also go to your school counselor and talk with them, that's what their there for, you could also talk to your mom about going and talking to a therapist, if you think it might help, I see a therapist every 2 weeks and it does wonders for your stress, its great. All The Best
2007-02-23 15:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by Terry Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a suggestion, type like an intelligent person.
Get an extracurricular or a sport. That can give you an excuse to get out of the house and do something with your friends.
2007-02-23 14:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by the cat's pajamas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 D ABOVE PPL SHUT UP WHU CARES **ITS CAL'D SLANG
Runaway LoL nah jokez
umm well go for holidays try and get out of the house by going for a walk or to a friends house or maybe get a job and tell your sister to stop been a lil shiit and slap her silly LoL
2007-02-23 14:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋