My life sux.
Im in depression...and my parents are always taking everyones side but my own.
If my brother beats the crap outta me for no reason...its MY fault.
then the guy I like HATES me. He admitted it to me today. We used to be real good friends.
My papa died...
And im crying.
My friends are ignoring me and people think im wierd for no reason.
I get labeled everywhere I go...such as Gothic or emo. But I have a small skool and they don't even know what that means.
Im heartbroken and falling apart. HELP
2007-02-23 14:10:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I'm sorry for your loss. Do you have a parent or step parent at home who is abusive to you? I'm not sure where your from or what your society is like but is there any place that has an outreach program available in your area or school?
Growing up is hard, there is a lot of pressure to act, dress, and be a certain way. Forget about the guy who said he "hates" you, and instead of feeling bad about who you are, feel good that you are not a clone and just trying to be someone your not.
Be confident in the fact you are an individual, who has feelings and much to offer the world. Do you have a favorite teacher? Someone you trust who is mature to confide in?
Your brother may be in pain to and taking it out on you. People have different ways of expressing their pain.
I can assure you that your life will get better, I am suggesting you try and get some help.
The only person who can label you is you. Think of all the good things you have done, what your good at, what your dreams are, growing up is temporary.
Next time you go to school, hold your head up, feel confident about yourself, look people in the eye when they talk to you or look at you. Do good in school and tell your brother to stop hitting you or you'll call the cops on him next time. (Since your parents won't do anything about it).
Pick yourself up, think about all the good things there is about you. I'm sure if I new you, I could name at least 100 things good about you.
Don't do anything to harm yourself or anyone else, do the things I mentioned above and this will all pass and you will become whatever you want to be in life.
And forget about dating boys right now, there all pigs at that age, lol.
Your loved!
2007-02-23 15:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking about all the good things in your life. Write in a diary or journal daily expressing yourself the way that you feel and how you feel you are being perceived by others. Look thru it often and try to figure out for yourself why you feel like you're misjudged or depressed. I'm really sorry about your papa. It's so hard to lose someone you're that close to. But, I'm sure he wouldn't want you to be depressed. Think of what a great guy he was and look at the life he lived. That may help you along. Best wishes to you, you sound like a cool kid!!
2007-02-23 14:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by mop-27 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Teenage life sucks shite, really. But the greatest part is that it's not forever. Really the name of the game is to get through those years untill your of age and can control your life on your own without your parents, school, siblings. Trust me things will get better. Just try to survive, and defy them by doing things you enjoy and just ride out the storm. Don't give them any ammo and surprise them by taking the high road and just let them ramble on, knowing all the while that when your eighteen your going to show them all by fulfilling your dreams while they are still stuck in their boring,judgemental lives. I know it sounds corny, but this helped me alot when i was younger was to learn about buddism, what i like most about it is that basically it teaches that life generally sucks and when you stop wishing for things to happen you wont feel disapointment in life. I'm thirty and the greatest thing about my childhood is the fact that it's over....your will be to soon, dont worry it's just something we all have to get through. Good luck, and dont give up. There is a lot of great experiences coming your way.
2007-02-23 14:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life looks pretty bad but remember this: when you are seeing shadows in front of you, the light is obviously behind you! So, turn around and see the light. There are several holistic healing systems which reconnect you to the source of all energy.
2007-02-23 15:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young and you haven't had enough time to realize how much suffering, pain, disease and cruelty go on in the world.
No matter what your problems in this life there is always people with worse problems and they keep on going trying to make their life as good as they can.Some of the most seemingly peaceful people you meet have had horrendous lives. You still have your whole life ahead of you, you can make it what you want it to be all with you attitude.Pray for strength and God will give it to you.
2007-02-23 15:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this helps, but it does get better. For now, try and find a way out of the bad situations you're in. See if you can live with a relative for a while. If school's getting you down, transfer, or, if you're old enough, test out. Talk to a counselor or a therapist about your woes. And remember, life does get better, you just have to stick it out for a while. Best of luck.
2007-02-23 15:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ophelia193 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to the poster... i feel sorry 4 u.
russian...aawwwwww i feel so bad 4 u...NOT, FREAK!!!! ur such a lier.if ur mom really is abusive u shud call the police stupid!!!!!!!! i agree, u wouldn't have internet access if she was so mean!!!!!
AGAIN... what a load of crap
2007-02-23 14:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by ONE N ONLY 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Russian:
Yet she is nice enought to provide you with internet access?
What a load of crap!
2007-02-23 14:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
i'm willing to hear you out dogmicjoe@yahoo.com is my email but realize ther are others with aids, cancer, diabetes, no food to eat...so you are not that. if u want moral help calll 1800 lifenet or www.metanoia.org
2007-02-23 14:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
life does suck sometime. doom, despair, and misery on me...deep, dark depression, excessive misery... if it were'nt for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all...doom, despair, and misery on me !
2007-02-23 14:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋