I hate guys. I helped him out when all of his friends ditched him and no girl would even bother with him. His father dies and all of a sudden everyone's his friend and they are all there for him. He dropped off the face of the earth for a little over a month after his dad passed away and comes back telling me he's found another girl and has a girlfriend. I sent him a letter to discuss how I felt about him and it was very sincere and nice and I did not yell at him or make fun of him I left like a true lady. Long story short the new girl leaves him and he's coming on about a month after that iming me going 6 girls slept over my house last night. Then a few days later he is calling me names telling me I am stupid and trashy and I basically have no life. Than today he brings up the lowest thing of all he could ever say to me "Talk to me when you kiss someone" and he blocks me. What a jerk he got strength from my help and left me and thinks he is too good for me.
2007-02-23 13:35:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I am not perfect and will say I have not done some right things in this situation but I mean come on I helped him out. I'm 21 years old by the way.
2007-02-23 13:36:03 · update #1
Man, what a loser! Just ingore him and let him go back to his pathetic excuse for a life, you're better off without him.
You have no reason to humor him, fido (forget it, drive on)
Just remember they oddly wise words of blink182, "I'll never talk to you again."
There is a day coming where a fool like that will look back and realise what a joke his life has been.
Btw, not all guys are like that.
2007-02-23 13:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ethan D 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if he's ruining any of YOUR friendships with OTHER people, then you definitely need to confront him face to face, without a bunch of other people around so he doesnt feel the pressure to be a jerk (because apparently some guys think that's cool). Tell him you want him to stop in a calm, controlled tone, even if he's being a jerk and raising his voice to you. Tell him you will leave him alone, and that you want him to leave you alone also.
DO NOT try to repair this friendship. He's obviously a horrible person and you are better than this. He's not worth your trouble. You just get him to leave you alone, then separate yourself from him completely. Its obvious he'll only bring trouble to your life.
2007-02-23 21:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by 17*mezzo*17 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are jerks caz they think that the whole world revolves around them.When things go wrong they go and blame someone else caz the do not want to face the fact that they are
losers.He'll get over it.Guys Suck!!!!!
2007-02-23 21:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by owen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not to allow his bad example taint your feelings towards guys in general. He's just a scumbag.
2007-02-23 21:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by cartiphilus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah what a jerk get at me rearviewm1rr0r
2007-02-23 21:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by ayyeoitssteveo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are jerks...about 70% of them are...in my opinion...i have one of the 30% that are not jerks â¥
2007-02-23 21:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by lexxx♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea they are jerks, well some of them
2007-02-23 21:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋