i love my boyfriend with all my heart. and i kno he loves me. but sometimes i feel second to one of our friends. what should i do?? im not one of those people who tell people how i feel that often, i hate showing weakness to certain people.. but thats besides the point. what should i do, i really love him, and i kno i cant live without my boyfriend, but is it the same way for him???
2007-02-23 13:31:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure of your age--guys do love girls, sometimes just as much as girls love them. But sometimes girls/women expect their guy to love them the exact same way we love them. And when that doesn't happen we begin to question his love. Just how much someone loves us should be measured by whether they give to us what is valuable to them such as our time, their willingness, their sacrifices, their energy, etc. For some women their most valuable possession is themselves. Dr. Phil wrote in O magazine that one should try to determine what is most valuable to their guy and see if he shares that with you. It could be his time, his child from a former relationship, his dreams/goals, his car, his games/electronics, etc. And, keep in mind, just because sometimes he chooses to spend time with someone else, hopefully another male, doesn't mean he wouldn't be there for you if you really needed him. We shouldn't want to come first in anyone's life, though many of us desire this. You are pretty much expecting him to show you his love for you in the same manner you would show your love for him. But his way may be different. And, make sure you're not putting him first in your life! You should take that spot.
2007-02-23 13:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Naive Unintentions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharing your feelings isn't a weakness - it's a Strength, if you know yourself well enough to stand up for it....it's Awesome. Too many people cower to others and become a Shell of their True self. If you love him & want the relationship to be long term then you'll need to express your feelings - even if it is just jealous. Maybe he can shed some light of comfort or help you understand the truth of his feelings better. And know that Friends are important in a relationship...you two shouldn't be joined at the HiP. And Hon, even if he doesn't feel the same....You lived before him, and you will Live After him....might be some time of adjustment but there is Great things out there for you...regardless if he's by your side or not!!!
Stand Tall & Love yourself.
2007-02-23 13:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u'll always b da one on his mind at all time no matter if he choosin u over sum1 else don worry about dat but da thing is da a fwend is sumthin dat in a way is better an not dan a girlfwend buit dat person is a fwend an ur his gurl so u shouldn't worry cuz wen u an him have problems or arguments he needs sum1 trustful to go to who won tell evry 1 an dats da person he goes 4 advice wat to do to fix so don owrry about it its life ur love an enjoy it it only happen[onez]!!!
2007-02-23 13:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by lil baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
relax
as long as the friend isn't wearin a skirt
u got nothin to worry bout
2007-02-23 13:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. that was how i was with my ex. ''does he love me ? with all his heart ?'' those were the questions i asked myself. but trust me girl. you CAN live without him. it hurts to know that you love someone who doesn`t love you back .. but as you said in the beginning, you KNOW he loves you. if your second doubting yourself, why not straight out ask him ?
2007-02-23 13:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by miss ZEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Good relationships need good communication
2007-02-23 13:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him. he wont see it as weakness, he'll see it as a sign of love and caring for your relationship.
2007-02-23 13:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with the above
2007-02-23 13:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋