i am a shy girl when it comes to talking to guys i like if they won't talk to me first. ironically, i have a crush on this guy who can't talk to girls he has feelings for. what can i do?
2007-02-23 13:29:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i use to be shy also. how did i get over it? make yourself get over it. join a converstion that you would usually just stan there and just listen but make yourself be heard. get used to talking to people and you will get more confortable. after you do that do the same thing with him, or better yet...start a one on one coversation with him. you can talk about what you like to do for fun or what wish you could go do..but you dont want to go alone
2007-03-03 08:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Yana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try writing him a friendly letter. If your shy, you won't feel comfortable telling him straight out you are "interested", so approach him first as a friend. The best way to beat the pressure is to go out in a group. Gather some of your friends and invite him and some of his friends to a social atmosphere. Try ice skating, roller skating/blading, a party or club. (A movie probably isn't the best due to the no talking thing.) This way you are not forced to be one on one. Although, you will still need to talk to him at some point, but if you really like him, I'm sure it will be well worth it.
Good luck!
2007-03-03 20:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by jessnbethsmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviosly for a shy person any direct contact is out of the qeustion, but i can gaurentee you that any time a girl will even have a AIM converstion, a facebook message, or a phone call to a shy guy he will immediatly be intreged. Good luck, if you rly like him then 90% of the time its mutual
2007-02-23 21:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by yankskick42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seein dat both u guyz r shy dats [cute]..lol.. but wat u should do is try to talk 2 him wen u can an it will grow 4rm there bcuz if u really lke dis guy den u should u kno theres nothin wrong wit it so yeah start slow don go all da way an ask him out dats 2 fast so jusss try bin fwendz if it grows more dan dat an u truly like him like dat den u kno dat it will happen sooner or later!!!
2007-02-23 21:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by lil baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actually know for sure that he likes you back it shouldn't be too difficult. Just try to be around him, and the mutual attraction means you'll both be looking for the right time to break the ice, so eventually one of you almost definitely will!
2007-02-23 21:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be his friend to break the ice and after a few weeks he may feel more confident and probably ask you out.
Good luck girl!!! and remember confidence is the key always be yourself
2007-02-23 21:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck on this one. simply smiling will not get you anywhere. find some sort of thing that the two of you have in common and strike up a conversation. physically bumping into him on purpose is another way of getting a conversation started.
2007-03-03 21:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by irisheyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a letter tell him how you feel get the facts some solid foundation to stand on lifes not easy as you grow you will also need to grow in mental strength good luck
2007-03-03 21:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys need direction. Just grab him by his business and tell him how it's gonna be! If he's not gay, he'll love you for it...
2007-02-23 21:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy you should make the move before someone else gets him!
2007-02-23 21:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by cuddlepuppy777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋