idk if i should be mad at this??

Question

my ex and me r still messing around..and hes been in the house punished for his grades..but anyway ive been hanging out with different ppl since then..and its been about a month and ive grown close to these ppl. But my ex found out that ive been playing games and messing with other people in these games...and he got mad over that. But now i am mad that my kinda not to important friend has been talking to my ex about doing sexual stuff. and they agreed to do stuff. well aftter that i just decided that if they do mess around like they talk then im done with the both of them compltley meaning im no longer messing with him. Ppl have told me not to get involved with him in the beggining but i didnt listen and i should have. Mine was all fun and games...and i told him bout it. but he aint tell me, i found out through a mutural friend...and then my ex sound like he want to get mad at me. wth!! but yeah wut do u think??

Answer 1

wow thats very confusing but i think i know what your saying.... but what goes around comes around you may have just been playing but males look at things differently than females and to him he's doing the same thing to you ..payback!!! and just because you tell him you did something wrong doesnt mean he's gonna tell you b/c if he didnt get caught you would never have known now would you!!!!! i say friends are more important than guys and you definitly should find somebody else...but you need to decide if that girl is really your friend or not b/c if she aint then dont worry about her either just remember true friends are hard to come by and you dont want to ruin a true friendship over a guy

Answer 2

Look you need to open your eyes and realize that you guys are not even together. So, why do you even bother to get mad just because he wants to do things with other people and didnt do with you. Theres no reason for the both of you to be mad at each other. Both of you need to grow up. If you guys still have a thing for each other then just go for it. But if you guys are having doubts about each other, the both of you guys should just move on and leave each other be before one or the both of you guys get hurt for no reason.Just remember that you guys DONT GO OUT!!!

Answer 3

I think you should be mad at yourself for being so young and putting more effort into being sexual invincible and not focusing on your future and how these things can mess up your future. Sex isn't a game and friends shouldn't be passed around like as playtoys. Life is fragile, sex is dangerous and maturity takes discipline and time. I say pack it up and leave that stuff behind - it will only bring you heartaches, headaches & dis-ease of all sorts.

Answer 4

have you ever been putting out with this guy or are you admiring him from afar? in case you have been putting out with him and been incredibly shy, perhaps he's perplexed as to what you want. perhaps putting out with the females which you do unlike is a thank you to make you jealous and get a reaction out of you. in case you haven't any longer been putting out with him in any respect and he has no clue which you like him then you actual could as nicely make your emotions time-venerated. what is going to it harm? a minimum of you attempted and additionally you would be attentive to the respond on your burning want. And if he does not want something to do with then you definately he's not worth some time.

Answer 5

You should leave him alone. He's your ex for a reason right. Besides, you shouldn't be sleeping with a guy who you know is sleeping with other women you might catch something.

Answer 6

Oh good gods child!! Do you really like/want all that drama in your life? If you do, keep doing what you're doing. If not, figure out what's best for you and do it!