so lets say a guy is supposed to meet you this weekend,and he says hell talk to you soo. <---- he told you this like a week ago, but then he never signs on or calls. soooo, wuld it be a biggie to get his number and call him and see if he wants to hang out? does it matterrrrrrrrr?
2007-02-23 13:19:09 · 24 answers · asked by tortl :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be a stalker.
2007-02-23 13:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short for playing games. Give him a call and try to arrange to meet up again. You'll find out fairly quickly that way whether he's interested or not. If not then move swiftly along. If he is, then it's all good. You've nothing to loose. The worst thing to do is nothing, and end up wondering "What if?" More often than not, the biggest regrets a person will have are the things they didn't do as opposed to the things they did.
2007-02-23 21:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by kevosully 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he has your number and he said he'd call but didn't, he might be just putting it off until the last minute but it's quite possible he's avoiding you. It's not a big deal to get his number and call him this one time, but if he doesn't call you the next time you're supposed to hang out then he's almost certainly avoiding you. Calling somebody just ONCE when they were supposed to call you is never a big deal though!
2007-02-23 21:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you need that book 'he's just not that into you'. changed my whole outlook on guys. i got out of a ho-hum years-long relationship and the next week started dating a real man who is gorgeous and treats me like a princess. that was 7 months ago. see, if this guy was into you-he would have called. if he's not making an effort now, do you want to be chasing him down later? no. you want a guy that is that self-centered? no. i might have pursued a guy back then, but not anymore. your hesitation is right on-make him work for you. you want the guy that really wants you, not because you make it easy for him.
2007-02-23 21:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldnt be to much of a biggie just casually bring up the conversation about hanging out at like you know him for years and like your best buds GO FOR IT GIRL ask for the number!!!
2007-02-23 21:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by allison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say.......if he REALLY wanted to hang this weekend-he would of called
sooooo.............I think he was trying to not hurt your feelings
dont chase after someone that doesnt give you the time of day
good luck and have a fun week end with the girls!!!
2007-02-23 21:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by bulldog lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it.. that is exactly what he is waiting for men take it as a sign that you are controlling or something. if he needs to be chased then he aint worth it. hold out act like youre not worried about it and he will have to come around.
2007-02-23 21:46:05 · answer #7 · answered by B vitamins leafy veggie protien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. It's all a risk, he could be avoiding you because he's not interested or maybe he's too timid to call you and would welcome you making a move.
I'd say call, worst case scenario he's not interested but at least you know.
2007-02-23 21:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think that's the question you should be asking. I mean, it does matterrrrrrrrr if you write like this, because a blind monkey could write better than that.
2007-02-23 21:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ misschels ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. dont call him. he said he'll talk to u soon. has the date and day and time and venue been decided? why is he keeping u hanging? dont call him. he needs to step up.
2007-02-23 21:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to talk to him, just call him. You have nothing more to loose, that you havn't already lost.
2007-02-23 21:22:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋