I've been dating this guy for about a month. Then comes valentines, and he disappears. I tried calling him, just to see what's up but nothing. I wasn't expecting anything extravagant, but a lil something would have been nice. Then that night, we met up at a club, and we had a great time, but i didn't bring up the part about being disapointed. So what does this mean?
2007-02-23 13:15:53 · 3 answers · asked by mariapie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe spending Valentines Day with you would make it seems like you guys are getting serious and he probably doesn't want that as of right now. You guys are just dating for several months and he perhaps doesn't want to make you feel led on when he's the one not taking the relationship too seriously.
2007-02-23 13:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, to break it to you, but when a guy dissapears on you on a day like valentines day...lovers day. He does not really "love you". If he did he would of called you to wish you a happy Valentines Day and he would of done something nice on this special occasion. The fact that he chose to ignore you and not talk about it signals his disregard for valentines day. If you are ok with him treating you this way then stay with him. However, you deserve a lot better than a guy "dissapearing" on you on such a day. What's he going to do on your b-day? Drop off the face of the earth? What a complete loser. Grrr..men suck! He's only hanging out with you because he has nothing else better to do. Don't let him treat you like that! Read the book "He's Just not that into you." and you will understand what I mean. You are so much better than that. The fact that he just dissapeared on you shows how much he cares which is not that much at all! Don't listen to what he says...watch how he acts and treats you! You deserve a guy who on Valentines day buys you flowers or candy and takes you out! You deserve that! Move on and ditch the BUM!
2007-02-23 22:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitly bring it up. thats so scummy. and its pretty unlikely he forgot. maybe he has a good reason to not get you anything. maybe hes just scummy.
best solution is to talk to him about it
2007-02-23 21:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋