I usually go online to a latin chat room and meet guys form my own city (atl).I met a guy today who although i haven't seen him he seems nice, he suggested we meet at a place of my choice.Should i go ahead and meet him or should i just say no.
2007-02-23 13:11:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are going to meet him be sure to go somewhere very public and let him tell you what he will be wearing and you do the same and wear something different if he asks you about it just say something spilled on you and you had to change. Be there first to see him but stay a few feet away away so you can see him first.... then if every thing seems OK then you may go and meet him. Be careful... get a friend to tag along if you need company
2007-02-23 13:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how comfortable you feel about the situation. Always..always..meet a person in a public place and somewhere simple like at Starbucks. Nothing too secluded. People lie online..men especially. They lie about their ages, marital status and looks. Being a woman, always keep your guard up. However, I would suggest getting to know the person on the phone first to get a feel of who they are and how they sound. You can tell a lot about a person in their voice and the way they talk....Be discreet with who you give out your number. I know guys always seem eager to meet, but for them it's mainly for seX if they haven't even talk to you or tried to get to know you. Ask for a photo if they can send you one and make sure that the guy is not a sleaze ball. Use caution! Women don't understand that a lot of men out there use the internet to get laid. So, just take things slow because I've done the online thing and you have to get to know the person before you meet them. It's better that way!
2007-02-23 21:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why, out of all the men in the world, would you meet with someone you've never seen before and just met that day??? Anyone on chat rooms can seem nice, but you barely know this character. Have some common sense. Wait, maybe six months+, before deciding to meet with him. And meet somewhere *really* public, like the park or mall.
2007-02-23 21:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by ¥§Anaşia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to go through some steps first...
email each other back or forth several times as in 3 or more times. ask him to provide you with 3-5 pictures (anyone can give 1 or 2 fakes but not 3-5) no more than 30 days old. dont tell him where you live or work yet!!
ask him for his phone number, talk some more for a while, ask him about the same stuff you asked in the emails. if everything checks out after a few calls, then arrange to meet at a public place. dont tell him where you live or work yet!!
at this point, physical meeting is open-ended...depends on you on what you want to do and tell him.
the whole thing is to check his sincerity (recent photos, asking same questions), see if he is worthy (email then phone then meeting). the net is dangerous, filled with fakes, flakes and predators.
2007-02-23 21:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I am older than you and when we are young we fear nothing....lol but be careful these days you never know who this guy is......My son is a police officer and he tells me things all the time about catching these guys online who chat and meet up with girls and it turns out bad. So just be very careful! If you do meet him go to a pubic place and don't just think because of one time meeting he is o.k...Take Care!
2007-02-23 21:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by nancee l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you meet guys some place other than a chat room. It alot safer if you don't date guys you met on the internet.
2007-02-23 21:16:52 · answer #6 · answered by billaroxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were to go and meet this person u should either go with a friend or go to a place with alot of people. if you do make sure there are people around sometimes people u meet online arent always the person think they r
2007-02-23 21:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by marcusmitchellus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him you want to meet in a public place. it is not safe to meet him for the first time at your home. tell him if he really wants to meet you then he will meet you in a public place. if he says no then tell him that you can't meet him. people are not always what they seem. So be careful.
2007-02-23 21:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's a nice guy. maybe he's charming and funny and nice and all that. maybe he's a 40 year old pedophile with a beer belly and a stupid mustache. maybe he has a collection of star wars action figures in his den. maybe he has a cocaine problem and deals to support his habit. maybe he has an arm growing out of his forehead. maybe he is really a woman who's had a sex change operation. maybe he wants to get together for one thing and one thing only, and, knowing what he wants, tries really hard to seem nice when really you're going to be smacking your forehead two months down the road because you're involved in something terrible you can't get out of. maybe i used way too many examples to make a very simple point.
2007-02-23 21:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by ccr152 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a public place with lots of people okay, but otherwise no. Meeting a stranger is always risky.
2007-02-23 21:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋